why sometimes i feel that i hate everything i love?

Question

silly huh? is it that i have strong feelings about them and i am scared, and then i block myself and .......then nothing. what can i do to get over that?

here is a list of some things like that:
1.dance [hurts me]
2.boys [hurts me]
3.dreams [really hurts me]
.....etc EVERYTHING with passion in it seems to hurt, i don't understand that..

Answer 1

All I can do is address those things you mentioned.

1. If dance hurts you more than it should, you're pushing too hard. Ask yourself, 'why am I forcing this? What am I trying to prove/achieve by pushing myself so hard?'

2. If boys hurt you, you are choosing the wrong boys to be with. Ask yourself, 'Why am I picking boys who are not right for me? Am I doing it on purpose? Subconsciously do I get something from it when they hurt me? How can I change that?

3. The dreams are simply manifestations of the rest of the pain you're suffering. Eliminate the source of the pain, eliminate the pain itself, and the dreams will stop being painful as well.

Answer 2

How will u ever understand what love is if you have not experienced hate? Just dont think that everything is perfect cuz thats a lie. Nothing comes easily and stays perfect, thats the way of life. But thats doesnt mean there isnt still great things waiting out there for you. U just need to move on with the things that have hurt u, they hurt doesnt mean they have to destroy.

Answer 3

Sounds like you don't feel that great about yourself.....what do you perceive love to be? Do you feel that you are loved by anyone.....parents....family...friends? Pretty deep....Get support from someone you trust. If you draw a blank there...then seek professional help.

Answer 4

Love is a very demanding thing. It asks that we give up ourselves and surrender to it. The best thing you can do is go ahead and surrender to that which you love. That way lies joy.

Answer 5

I be feeling the same way...it is not silly...
it just happens...