Ok, so my best friend Dave is great, and i love him to lil pieces as a mate. we spend quite a lot of time together in and out of lessons. we talk about all of our problems with each other before we tell anyone else and pretty much the only thing i havnt told him is that i really like him, more than as 'just a mate.' i dont know if i should or not. the main thing putting me off telling him is that hes always got loads of girls going after him. he goes out on dates sometimes but there hasnt been anything serious since about mid december. so do you think i should say anything to him? if i did, id probably just tell him the absolute true: i really like you but i dont wanna lose you as a mate or for it to be weird between us... thanks for your help!!
2007-02-01 09:18:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Dont tell him Im a guy and iknow this just stay what you are and only time will tell maybe he will realise that he likes you to. dont make him think that your in love because guy tend to stay away to those yours maybe different. tell him before summer.
2007-02-01 09:34:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had mates, that I was attracted to, Earl had girls all over him, but when we were together, I found him receptive to mild
occasional touch, and one day he told me he knew I liked him
and said "go ahead, touch it" We were then lovers 4 about 6
months. I think he was the 1st to break my heart though, when I realized I couldn't have him to myself. He enjoyed our special
relationship, but still went with girls and even older women. We were 16. When I was 21, I liked another mate, we were close,
even lived in a same group home. After a 9 month friendship,
we found ourselves sleeping on the floor with joined sleeping bags because it was cold. He agreed to it, to keep warm, sleep
together. Although he was always talking about girls, we talked sex stuff and showed our privates. Any way that cold night I
awoke, to find Mike cuddled up tight next to me. I began to carress his chest, and abdomen, brushing against his erect
penis. Unsure of what I had touched, I went back to feel again,
and he pushed my hand away, I wanted to touch IT so bad that I did and he pushed me away again and said "not that" he then grabbed my hand, and placed it back on his chest. "go back to sleep" he says then, and we both did sleep. The next morning we awoke, and with daylight could see each other. I tell him
I'm sorry I did that, I'm feeling real scared, worried too. He's so
OK with it, shrugs it off, no big deal, "you probably thought I was
a girl" he says. But later I admit I knew who HE was, and that I
was excited, and thought he was too. He assures me he's 100% straight, thinks I am too, just confused. We remain friends for years after that. Now some guys I've found, say they are straight, but still will let a guy give em a BJ, or we J/O
2gether, and even anal sex. They often like to look at str8 porn
during a session, some boys even thank me for giving them their first experience, giving em confidence to approach and be
good with girls. One friend I've known for 25 years, straight,
married, 2 kids, accepts me and all, we do alot 2gether, but never anything sexual. When we were younger(before he
married) I had attraction, but didn't tell, now not really at all.
But occasionally I sense he would like to do something, and
I would never jeopardize our friendship to find out.
2007-02-01 10:43:56 · answer #2 · answered by Uncle rvk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling the truth is a risky attitude, but not telling leads you into more sufferings. Go ahead for truth, but be prepared for whatever it may lead to ... Good friends do not always make good boyfriends, you know ...
2007-02-01 09:22:43 · answer #3 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
goin through the same thing
2007-02-01 09:22:44 · answer #4 · answered by boxofjoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋