or is she just Faking it. Most of the Guys answers are Typical, One man did hit the nail on the head, when he said you can feel the muscles contracting and she shakes. My question is you guys. Why do yall not Last long enough to please your Spouse? It takes a woman longer and she needs more stimulation... Not all men do this, but from what other women tell me, MOST do...
2007-02-01 08:55:30 · 8 answers · asked by donna_honeycutt47 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I always wait for the woman to go first.When I was younger I didnt because I maintained even after several Big O's.Waiting for her is the only thing that makes sense when your goal is mutual satisifaction.Any man who does not is selfish.He can always stop or slow down if he is going to go off first.Always worked for me.And stopping drives some women wild.I like that.
2007-02-01 09:02:34 · answer #1 · answered by Honest Injun 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Back when I was about 17 that was 20 yrs ago, I got hold of a magazine and seen about women not being satisfied from thier partner so I read news articles and magazines how to please women...Cause I wanted to please the woman I was with...When I do oral on my wife , I normally can get her off in less than 10 minutes...but keep going another 10 to really get her going..at times she alomst snaps my neck..but it's worth it...Then with intercoarse being another 20 minutes ....I can most times get her off again.....by then...I'm all pooped out...I think it depends to on the guy and what they do to the woman on the amount of time it takes to get a woman off...
2007-02-01 09:35:05 · answer #2 · answered by hononegah1988 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sorry...i'm not a guy, but i think i have an idea.......
men are pigs and only care about getting off. The ones who last longer, are the ones who actually want to take the time to please their woman, they have learned to control themselves better. Others don't care, and just think about how good it feels when they get to go which brings it on faster. My bf is really trying to last as long as he can, and god love him, sometimes he can, and others not. I make sure i get what i want out of him before we have sex to make sure i get off too, incase he doesn't last long.
2007-02-01 09:00:57 · answer #3 · answered by Jamie Lynn 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I love pleasing a woman. I will not stop until she has reach the point.
2007-02-01 09:01:33 · answer #4 · answered by larry t 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I THINK THAT MOST GUYS JUST DON'T CARE WHETHER YOU GET YOURS OR NOT.
THIS WAS A HUGE DEAL IN MY MARRIAGE YEARS AGO. AS A MATTER OF FACT, THAT'S WHY I STARTED SEEING SOMEONE ON THE SIDE. MY HUSBAND FINALLY STARTED TO GET IT AFTER HE FOUND OUT ABOUT THE AFFAIR. THINGS HAVE CHANGED IN THE BEDROOM. HE KNOWS NOW THAT I NEED TO BE SATISFIED TOO OR HE WON'T BE GETTING ANY EITHER.
2007-02-01 09:01:30 · answer #5 · answered by sweetbabykitty 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
actually not all women take longer to have an orgasm... it just depends more on mood than friction for a woman.
also, naturally men need to spread their sperm. it's more important in survival for a man to ejaculate than it is for a woman to have an orgasm, so maybe nuture just bread us that way.
and men WILL last longer if they had sex more frequently. in my experience, the longer I wait the faster I go.
2007-02-01 09:01:14 · answer #6 · answered by collinchristine_edwards 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
most men are selfish
also,
A husband is living proof that a wife can take a joke.
2007-02-01 09:04:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
umm im only 13 not gonna answer anything
2007-02-01 08:59:15 · answer #8 · answered by boxofjoy 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋