I am not looking in any way to ever have an affair. I am just curious that is all.
2007-02-01 08:31:47 · 13 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The only way is to keep temptation away.
That means, do not give in into flirtation with co-workers, neighbors or online, no matter how tempting it is to have your ego stroked.
So bassicly, is best not to ever strat or engage into anything that may arise s exual tension with the oposite sex, to include, puting your profile onl;ine in dating services because you were "curious", or bonding with single available women that want yoru attention. Avoidance is the best policy.
Say, thaks but no thanks, I'm very married, I love my wife and I respect her and our relationship.
Good luck
2007-02-01 08:49:11 · answer #1 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've only ever had an affair with the one person (not that this should justify it but we are both the same age , not married and his girlfriend is a lot younger than us) and we should have walked away from each other but we just cant. It would be best just not to spend too much time with that person because once you get to know them and you both realise there is an attraction there is no going back.
2007-02-01 17:46:08 · answer #2 · answered by renee.emily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, you're not looking. Avoid having one by not lusting and not getting too close to a person of the opposite sex. Affairs are filled with nothing but drama. Think of the price that you would have to pay for the affair.
2007-02-01 16:36:27 · answer #3 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A very wise person once told me that when faced with temptation, the best thing is to run as far and as fast as you can away from it. We are all human. Why try to be "the man", face the temptation, and possibly fail overcoming it, when you could have avoided it altogether. In the fight or flight response, you have to be wise and "pick your battles". In this case, it's not worth the battle...and I pick flight. It's worked wonderfully for me.
I once failed, but since then, in a different relationship now, I've been given opportunities many times, and didn't take them. I just removed myself...problem solved!
2007-02-01 16:39:41 · answer #4 · answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how far you've fallen. If you see a hot guy and think, "Oh, he's hot. I wonder how he'd be in bed," then you can still walk away.
If you see the guy five days a week, and y'all talk, and there's definitely sexual energy, then it's not that easy. I just thank God every day that I quit my job, before it did go that far!!
2007-02-01 17:00:48 · answer #5 · answered by tinkerbell24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, avoid situations that are inappropriate, and relationships that are inappropriate. Don't assume that because you don't intend to cheat, that you won't, so the simple thing to do is avoid the situations that would lead up to something, that way you don't even have to test your resolve and/or common sense.
2007-02-01 16:37:36 · answer #6 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it would depend on ones belief system, their character, their threshold for dealing with disappointment, their level of compassion for their spouse, their past, their maturity and their judgment, their ability to control their emotions, their belief in god, and if they have too high of expectations they will cheat alot easier than a person who is willing to wait and see and endure.
2007-02-01 16:41:50 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's easy.
2007-02-01 16:38:18 · answer #8 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just don't have an affair. it's simple.
2007-02-01 16:37:12 · answer #9 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk the hell away fast.
2007-02-01 16:45:28 · answer #10 · answered by bette69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋