I love my X g/f so much. We dated for 7 months and we got pregnant in November. She lost the baby due to miscarriage. We had a bad break up because she found out I slept with another girl before she got pregnant. She lived with me and is now home with her parents. They don't want her to speak or see me, but she calls everynight and even came down to my house last week, and told me that I could never say a word about it because she is not supposed to see me. Last night some drama went down and I called her brother so he could make sure she was OK. He told me that I should find a new chick and if I ever showed my face at the house he would break every bone in my body.(short man syndrome, this would never happen). I didn't talk back i just let him go on and then said I was sorry. Her mom and I have talked at lenghth and I got moto X tickets for her dad last weekend. He very much enjoyed them. What is she feeling? Does she still love me? How can I get back in her brothers good graces?
2007-02-01 08:30:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
SCREW HER BROTHER YOUR DATING HER NOT HIM. AND IT SOUNDS LIKE SHE STILL LOVES YOU JUST GIVE HER SOME TIME
2007-02-01 08:34:55 · answer #1 · answered by MS. SWEET T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound like a nice guy, and I`m sure that you regret that you slept with another woman.
I think that you`re doing the right thing in taking thing very easy and slow. If you have the parents eating out of your hands then you`re halfway there.
The only problem as i see it ...... is the brother, and really it`s nothing to do with him, he is just being protective, as you maybe if you have a sister.
Keep in contact with her parents and your girlfriend, keep things slow and you will get what you want. Good Luck xxx
2007-02-01 16:40:16 · answer #2 · answered by Tatty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love this girl sooooooooooooo much, why are you doing what your doin? Serious? Love isn't supposed to hurt! Would you be putting up with her if she pulled some of this crap? Think about it! Her parents have a right to do what they are doing. They are trying to put a stop to her having more pain in her life!! You would do the same if you had a daughter! The girl probably does not trust you, who would? Do you blame her? As I see it, your pretty darn lucky she's even speaking to you, I wouldn't!! When you truly love someone, you treat them as if they were you..
2007-02-01 16:40:28 · answer #3 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still love her you shouldnt have slept with that girl but you cant change the past , so if you do love her and want her back i think you should tell her how you feel about her and tell her that you r sorry for hurting her .
Also dont worry about her brother he is just being protective over his sister thats what siblings are for . Try talking to her . and see what she says and feels .
2007-02-01 16:37:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not up to you to do anything. Firstly, you cheated on her. That gives her the right to decide what she wants to do - without your interference. And if she chooses to be with you, then its on her to stand up to her family and set the record straight.
You need to take a step back and let her decide. There's nothing you can or should do at this point, except wait.
By the way...you must have had a reason to cheat on her. Maybe things aren't as fabulous as you think they are. Focus on that reality for a while, and decide if you really want her back...
2007-02-01 16:35:45 · answer #5 · answered by Super Ruper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, Im surprised that your ex girlfriend still wants to see you. I can sympathize with her brother he is just looking out for her. I wouldnt waste any more money on her parents, they are probably never gonna like you like you want them too. Parents really only accept you after youre married. Then they have too! If you all want to be together you need to make that committment to each other and quit fooling around. She needs to stop sneeking around and stand up to her parents if she wants to be with you and you all need to get married if you are serious..
2007-02-01 16:36:19 · answer #6 · answered by daredevil635 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me put it this way: you want everyone in the family to love you after you have cheated on their sister and daughter...some guts...
2007-02-01 16:35:15 · answer #7 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to tell if she does. she might.
2007-02-01 16:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by dream21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋