I realy need help I found out today that I'm pregnate and I need help because I have no Idea wat to do this was unexpected cuz I had him use a condom and I'm scaerd!!!!! my parents dont even know yet WAT DO I DO????
2007-02-01 08:29:50 · 18 answers · asked by Braiden E 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
First of all, has it been confirmed by your doctor that you are pregnant? If you are, the sooner you tell your parents the better off you will be. If you are underage, they can help you make some informed decisions. I was 21 when I found out I was pregnant, and I was afraid to tell my mom, so I can sympathize with what you're going through. If you are an adult (age-wise!!), you need to tell the guy immediately. If he freaks and runs, rely on your girlfriends for emotional support. You're going to need it. Whatever choice you make, try not to do anything in haste.
2007-02-01 08:35:35 · answer #1 · answered by Libby 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First call your 19 YO boyfriend that you asked about the other day and get him to come to your house . You should both sit down with your parents and break the news, Do not think that I am trying to get you into trouble , Because I am not. You are an adult now and if you are going to keep the baby then you need to hurry up and start taking prenatal vitamins and go to a doctor for prenatal care, There are many tests that need to be done.
2007-02-01 08:39:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, first u need to tell him and your parents. that is the best start, then go from there. If you are not ready to be a mom you can put the baby up for adoption, but the father should also have a say in this decision as well as your parents depending on your age. But ultimately the decision is yours. Good Luck and God Bless
2007-02-01 08:36:28 · answer #3 · answered by Who Me? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have 3 choices:
1) Abort
2) Go through with the pregnancy and put the baby up for adoption
3) Keep the baby
No one can make this decision for you. It is your responsibility. No one can really advise you on it. It is for you to make alone. Each of the choices above come with a price. Which price are you willing to pay?
2007-02-01 08:37:27 · answer #4 · answered by Lilith 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you are a teen ager you might want to consider your optins carefully. This is a tremendous step and it will change your life FOREVER. I have 3, that makes me an expert. Your parents should know so they can offer you their perspective as well, then you can make an educated decision for yourself. Good luck.
2007-02-01 08:43:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anna Hennings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you just found out you were pregnant today what happened with the i am 14 and am 5mths pregnant will it hurt to diliver being this young posted a month ago.
if you are felling inscure enough to lie to get attention then you have a problem sweetie maybe you should go talk to your mum get her to tell you where babys come from.
2007-02-01 08:38:17 · answer #6 · answered by tully 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to make a doctors appointment or an appointment with your local health department, you also need to let your parents in on the fact that you are pregnant, they may be mad but they will be your best resource in the end, but make sure you are pregnant by going to the doctor or health department first, hope things turn out well
2007-02-01 08:35:43 · answer #7 · answered by clyde0523 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to your G.P because you need to take folic acid and he will put you in touch with a midwife. As for telling your family do it in your own time but don't leave it to long.They may be angry at first but they will come around. Good luck
2007-02-01 08:45:10 · answer #8 · answered by D.M.A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your underaged then tell your parents because you made a grown up decision when you decided to have sex.
I guess get a job and do the best you can
2007-02-01 08:36:33 · answer #9 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First how old are you and are you planning on going thru with the pregnancy ? If yes then you need to start taking your prenatal vitamins and seek a doctor.
2007-02-01 08:34:08 · answer #10 · answered by scm82 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋