DO YOU leave a bad relationship relatively soon or do you sit around and try to figure out the problem...and save it first? and for how long?
2007-02-01 08:28:05 · 9 answers · asked by kishoti 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
..i will give it some time, but not alot.....if the problem cannot be worked out or seen in a "clear" light.......then.....buh-bye..! ! ! !
2007-02-01 08:43:04 · answer #1 · answered by chillie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what kind of "Bad Relationship" your in. If your being abused in anyway...get out...you don't deserve it. If its a matter of different opinions, bickering, financial issues putting a strain, etc...etc... Then try to find out the cause of the problems. Only YOU can decide if the relationship is worth saving. If you like/love them a great deal and they feel the same for you, then you both have to sit down and discuss the situation. If you don't feel that connection...then why put yourself through the strain?
2007-02-01 16:37:57 · answer #2 · answered by Miloree 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on the person, depends if they can problem solve, and if they have what it takes to work out the difficulties. personally if i had it all to do over again, i would seek therapy, start communicating like i never did before, find out the problem, but if that didn't work i would leave the relationship. takes two to fix a relationship but only one to leave it, good luck.
2007-02-01 16:34:56 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your married try counseling. If not depends how bad it is. If there is abuse run and get help. If you think you might work it out and he is good to you then you might give it a while
2007-02-01 16:35:12 · answer #4 · answered by Mike S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most people know when it's time to go but don't usually pay attention to the red flags.
2007-02-01 16:45:40 · answer #5 · answered by ms_debbieg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always good to ad least try and work it out, if the love is real you will be surprise to see how things will work them selves out.
2007-02-01 16:36:02 · answer #6 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you genuinely love and care for the person you do whatever it takes to make it work. that excludes an abusive relationship
2007-02-01 16:33:12 · answer #7 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am currently toughing it out.
And it is tough. Believe me.
2007-02-01 16:34:06 · answer #8 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i leave a bad relationship...why stay if it is bad?
2007-02-01 16:31:35 · answer #9 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋