hey. i have a lot of good friends, but i also want to make some new friends. i was wondering, how do you get to know someone and then become their friend. i know that sounds weird but i am a little shy [until you get to know me, cuz then when we hang i get to be hyper and more open] but yeah im shy until you get to know me, so i was wondering how i can make new friends?what are some ideas?
also. at my school there is like this know it all. he tries to perfect everything, especially in german class. most people don't like him, but i'm starting to think he can be nice [he is, but most ppl make fun of him cuz he does stupid things like write HI on the board ...] and im starting to think that he isn't as weird as most think he is and would like ot get to know him and maybe become friends. it is hard though b/c like i said earlier i am a little shy, and he isn't quite the best person to be associated with... so how can i do this? he does seem nice to get to know.
thanks!
2007-02-01 08:12:25 · 3 answers · asked by .Frequently♥Dazzled. 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
oh yeah and he is in the same class as me for german[of course] but so are a few popular-ish people[i dont really care, but how will i be able to talk to him in class?what can i even talk about to him?]
2007-02-01 08:35:30 · update #1
Sometimes, the toughest things have the easiest answers.
In the case of making new friends, do what you've been doing. "if it isn't broke, don't fix it," right?
As far as the "Know-It-All," see the above response. Many people may not agree with you being cool with him, but that's them. You made the effort of getting to know him, and you'll be reaping the rewards from that attempt.
Hope this helps!!
2007-02-01 08:21:32 · answer #1 · answered by Andrew B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget what everyone thinks of him. if you think hes nice just straight up go talk to him. truth is, he might need a friend more than you do. dont think about what other people say because if you do, then it might catch onto you. you dont want that bad rep, neither does he. dont be shy. be really outgoing and start talking to people. and sooner than you think, you'll have tons of friends.
2007-02-01 08:17:58 · answer #2 · answered by Diana_Is_Amazing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just practice. Stand in front of a mirro and talk to yurself(you know, practice). it works for me. im shy too, but i have nice friends.
it all begins with a "hi".
2007-02-01 08:31:52 · answer #3 · answered by Fallen Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋