I was on track to become a veterinary student. Grades were going ok, have an offer, and was working well. But now I feel in a bit of a slump- it could be because I fancy someone to bits and am distracted. I don't know but if I dont get a grip I'm going to miss out on my dream!
What can I do to get my va va voom back?
thanks!
2007-02-01 08:09:17 · 11 answers · asked by Moi? 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Everyone has a period where they lose motivation. I guess it depends on what point you are in your life. Are you at school with a conditional offer or an unconditional offer to uni. Or at you at uni already.
If you are at school and have already been accepted then dont stress to much.
If you are one of the other two try to find something to remind you why you want to be a vet. Try to get some extra work experiance in a vets or even a dog and cat home.
Sometimes just thinking about starting to do something is the worst, school work, extra work for your job or even excercise. Once you start your ok problem is you just need to get started, just tell yourself your only going to do 10 - 20 minutes then sit down and open your books. This might not get the va va voom back but it might help the grades.
Best advice I can give is just try to remember who you want to be.
2007-02-03 11:37:23 · answer #1 · answered by supernova281977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has a slump time when they have a goal; it's like a marathon runner hitting "the wall". You have to keep your self belief. Take time out; can you do a gap year maybe?
If that isn't possible; a gap month??
Never mind the fancying someone; there will always be someone to fancy; if your dream is real, you should try and stick to it; you will appreciate it in time to come.
I dropped out of college as a mature student when I met mt partner 10 yrs ago; I regret it now, although I have gone back to college, I think of what I'd be now if I'd stuck it out.
2007-02-01 09:00:00 · answer #2 · answered by marie m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I'm at University and I know fully what it is like to face the slump in your studies every time something in your life comes up. Have you told this guy how you feel? Whatever happens or does not happen between you and him I urge you to remain focused on you studies. You'll regret it soooo much if you let this stop you. Why not take this coming weekend for some RnR? Hang out with friends... get drunk... whatever. But next week focus on your studies.
Good luck :-)
2007-02-01 09:05:30 · answer #3 · answered by K F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget the guy until you have your studies completed. I know this first hand--made this mistake myself. He will be more interested in you after you are working in your career. If you don't get on with your career---you will kick yourself in the back side forever. If he is meant to be in your life, the relationship will wait till the right time. Until then---go for long walks, eat your fruits and vegetables, don't smoke or drink alcohol, be kind to your parents. Your depression will be much better when spring time comes.
2007-02-01 08:23:50 · answer #4 · answered by gigi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That my friend is what you call Ego over ID. This is the kinda test in life that tells if your a reasonable and responsible person. YOU HAVE TO DEFY YOURSELF AND THE LUST THEREOF OF THE FLESH AND DO WHAT IS BETTER FOR YOU IN THE LONG RUN. Its hard i know but its going to help you more than you taught it could.
This question as it seems may sound simple, but rather, its a moral dilema that everybody should have as there foundation of their personality. Im glad i could help you.
2007-02-01 08:28:14 · answer #5 · answered by ChanteC 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forget the romance go for your career you have made it as a veterinary student what is he a sweeper up of the streets.
only joking but you see what i am saying.
When you have your own practice then find Romance and do not miss this chance of career.
2007-02-01 21:18:18 · answer #6 · answered by SAMANTHA H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So would the guy like you more if you were doing well? If so theres your motivation.
otherwise I have to question your genuine interest in the subject. Genuine interest is not distracted that much.
2007-02-01 08:42:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up your bigger picture into short-term goals & back those up with schedules & routines to achieve them. It's the best way to get your motivation back.
2007-02-01 14:16:02 · answer #8 · answered by Sabya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm doing Childcare, your motivation must have gone the same place mine has.
2007-02-02 03:20:34 · answer #9 · answered by truth_and_time_tells_all 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to start loving dogs more lol wait a sec that sound sick !!!! lol ......... no but to anwer your question drink alot more that always help.... hope that helps
2007-02-01 08:20:37 · answer #10 · answered by Angland 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋