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So, I'm a 19 year old college boy at a very small college. For most of sophomore year I was single, and three weeks before the end of term I met a boy. We hung out a lot, but only went on a couple of dates. Before we left school (which is 3 hours away from my home) we exchanged numbers and e-mails. Turns out the number he gave me doesn't work and he hasn't made any contact with me. I know he's shy, but come on. Anyway I've met another boy here at home (I go back in mid Feb) and I really like the new boy. Is it alright to date him and tell the other guy he blew it? Should I feel guilty? meh

2007-02-01 07:57:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

7 answers

Date the new guy of course. Dating should not be therapy. The first guy probably was not completely comfortable with being gay so he hedged his bets and gave you a false number. Since he did not attempt to correct the error assume it was his intention. Just move on. You cannot be in charge of what other people do. Feeling guilty is not your decision to make. If you do then there may be something you are leaving out of the story for us. Emotions can fool you. Use your mind when making choices.

2007-02-01 08:04:46 · answer #1 · answered by wes park 2 · 0 0

Yes it's alright to date the new guy and no, you should not feel guilty. Unless you and the first guy were dating exclusively, you are in essence a free agent and can date whomever you want.

I would NOT tell the first guy that he blew it; you never know what situation may have arisen since before you left school. Try to give the first guy the benefit if the doubt.

2007-02-01 08:54:11 · answer #2 · answered by behrmark 5 · 0 0

The first guy blew you off first so ignore him and move on. Gay men can do this to each other and be very passive and give out bad numbers or not return calls.

Go for boy #2

2007-02-01 08:02:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I'd say no. Only going on a few dates hardly implies any form of commitment.

2007-02-01 08:02:36 · answer #4 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0 0

You are not in a committed relationship, and are under no obligation to stay faithful to someone who has given you a defunct phone number and has not kept in touch.

Go for it. Good luck!

2007-02-01 08:01:32 · answer #5 · answered by ItsJustMe 7 · 3 0

If he was a boy worthy of you he would have contacted you. Move on and God Bless

2007-02-01 08:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by gtahvfaith 5 · 0 0

go for the gusto and the new guy. dont think about the creep who didn't bother to call. no guilt...just have a great time. :)

2007-02-01 08:01:47 · answer #7 · answered by Hi~ 3 · 0 0

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