sometimes i think that two too similar people can never get along perfectly because opposites kind of attract. what kind of experiences have you had?
2007-02-01 07:47:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
how were their personalities different?
2007-02-01 08:22:32 · update #1
hmm. my wife and i have similar values and morals and we share some interests, but we're fairly different personality-wise. i think there has to be a balance - enough in common to be able to share things, and enough differences so that you are both challenged and will grow and all that.
2007-02-01 08:08:49 · answer #1 · answered by supposed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are right. I am very strong will and if my partner is too then we won't do anything but try to wait the other person out, as I am finding out now. I refuse to follow. I think that opposites that have some common ground make a better match for the long run.
2007-02-01 15:59:12 · answer #2 · answered by Deezie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've heard that opposites attract, but similar make better partnerships.. my relationships have all been short, and the reason they ended usually had to do with differing values and attitudes and priorities.. personalities well, if the person is positive, then you should get along. nobody wants to be with an angry or depressed or low self-esteemed person. took me many years to learn that..
2007-02-01 22:09:08 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The people ive dated have similiar interests as me as well as many of there own...its a proven fact that opposites attract no doubt but what they dont tell you is that it wont last long...to have a good relationship you have to have things in common....
2007-02-01 16:43:37 · answer #4 · answered by Hen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband of 16 years is almost my polar opposite. Although it is very very rare that we ever have cross words. We are excellent at compromise. I find it a great compliment that our friends and families say that we are the ideal couple.
2007-02-01 15:59:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
some one with a very different personality can make for a difficult relationship as well as someone who is too much like you
2007-02-01 15:54:47 · answer #6 · answered by Josephus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. They tend to be different but not too different.
2007-02-01 15:51:42 · answer #7 · answered by Conseption 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all, I always fall for guys whose personalities compliment mine rather than copy mine
2007-02-01 15:50:14 · answer #8 · answered by Tegarst 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex (s) have all been very different than me.
2007-02-01 15:57:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they either complement me or we r very much alike
2007-02-01 16:12:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋