We have 3 kids and I'm currently pregnant. Why does he do this?
2007-02-01 07:39:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because you keep letting him.
2007-02-01 07:42:26 · answer #1 · answered by Ade 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
"Why does he do this?" -- Do what? Is he hitting you? Accusing you of cheating? Or are you referring to the children that you have and are currently pregnant with?
Now why is he jealous? Are you constantly giving him reasons to be jealous? Do you have guy 'freinds' that you like to 'hang out with'? Are you comparing him to other guys, (in terms of income, physical attractiveness, or skills)?
If not, then maybe he is just a little nutty. In which case you might want to teach your children how to behave when they grow up. Because they will watch how you deal with your husband, and they will act based upon your example.
So, if you are giving him reasons to be jealous, stop. If he is nutty, set an example for your children and respond rationally. If he is hitting you or threatening your safety, leave.
Good luck!
2007-02-01 07:53:18 · answer #2 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is either very insecure or he is cheating himself and accussing you out of his own guilt. Sounds like a control freak too. Usually the insecure ones are very controlling. If he has isolated you from friends and family and keeps you pregnant then you have an insecure control freak on your hands.
2007-02-01 07:46:23 · answer #3 · answered by StrawberryShortcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must have been that way when you married him and thought it was so cute right? Jealousy has to be the most obsessive, stupidiest behavior people have ever come up with; its like your mind is wanting to control and you dont' care if the truth is different than what you are thinking. He needs counseling and good luck!
2007-02-01 07:43:44 · answer #4 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you can do. When someone is insecure, that's just the way they are! in my case, he turned out ot be cheating, and felt insecure about me! If you're having problems get marriage counseling! OR you can tell him that you will eventually get tired of his sh** and you won't stick around long! put your foot down!
2007-02-01 07:43:58 · answer #5 · answered by cmdgrrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His insecurity and jealousy (directly linked) are HIS issue. It's wired into HIS head. There is nothing you can do other then suggest counseling and try to be supportive and patient. Congrats on the baby!
2007-02-01 07:42:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are jealous sometimes because they know what they are capable of doing. He might be looking in the wrong direction. He is probably worried about something he did or is going to do!
2007-02-01 07:43:43 · answer #7 · answered by CSI 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you doing things that he should be jealous about? Are you spending one on one time with other men? Are you flirting with other men? Ask yourself this: Do I do anything that makes him jealous that wouldn't make me jealous if he did it to a woman? I'm sure the answer is yes.
2007-02-01 07:42:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd hate to say this but people who don't trust are usually very untrustworthy. Just remember it's a him problem not a you problem. Congrat's on a new baby.
2007-02-01 07:43:43 · answer #9 · answered by MotherMayI? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why does he do what? Get you pregnant? I guess he feels a little security when you're pregnant.
2007-02-01 07:59:31 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for starters I think I would stop doing whatever it is that makes him insecure and jealous....some men are just like that is all
2007-02-01 07:54:27 · answer #11 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋