B/c I think that might solve a few problems of mine...but i DO NOT love myself...
2007-02-01 07:29:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You have to learn to respect yourself first and foremost. you can learn many things in life, but the most important one would be that you are worthy of respect.
You have to understand that your life will take many paths, but in the end you are responsible for your own life. If you dont want something- you wont ever have anything.
You have to set realistic goals, and take baby steps when trying to reach those goals.
You have to become strong, able to say no, and taking a stance against things that have done wrong to you.
I think it is also important to forgive yourself. No one in this world is perfect. Make people respect you. At the sheer sight of them not doing it- distance yourself.
You are wonderful, and should tell yourself that every day. Tell yourself you are beautiful, smart, fun, etc, even if you dont feel like it.
Dress up! Making up your outsides is a surefire way to start to feel good about yourself.
In the end, trust God. Put your faith into him and he will help you through the hard times and lead you in the right direction.
2007-02-01 07:33:11 · answer #1 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love yourself is having self-estime, is when you like yourself the way you are.
When a person doesn't like themselves, they get sad, depressed, complexes, and some even try suicide.
I'm so glad you're asking this question, your giving yourself an opportunity, and I'm even more happy because I saw your question.
I was a person without self-estime, i didn't like myself at all, as a teenager I almost killed myself twice, I didn't do it because I didn't have the courage to do it, and also because God didn't let me do it.
Me and my parents, very curious went to visit a christian church, and we liked there and stay there.
After learning about God's will, God's love, little by little he stated to work in me, inside my heart, He set me free from all evil, He comforted my heart and removed all the sadness, emptiness, complexes, all that was bad and he filled it with His holy presence, it's hard to put it in to words, it's a wonderful feeling.
Check out this web site: http://www.stopsuffering.org/
2007-02-01 07:47:25 · answer #2 · answered by fontes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love yourself means putting you first, respecting yourself. Taking care of yourself, not lowering yourself, knowing that if all other's fail you have God and yourself. If you don't have any friends you can stand alone because you are going to be you no matter what. Without a man, without anyone but you. Loving yourself is believing in yourself, and knowing that you are beautiful in every way. Of course sometimes you're going to be self concious, but you have to love yourself enough to know that you can fix whatever problems with your body you have, and if you don't you're still beautiful. I hope this helped you.
2007-02-01 07:34:11 · answer #3 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at yourself and note all the good qualities about yourself, and know that you are unique, and special, and first learn to like yourself, eventually you will learn to love yourself for who you are as a person regardless of what anyone else thinks....this is the beauty of self love it takes a while to get there but you will.
2007-02-01 07:34:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is an excellent book which will change your life. It's called "You can Heal your Life" by Louise Hay.
It is extremely helpful on this subject. I think everyone should read it, so many people's problems can be resolved. How many people can truely look in the mirror and say outloud "I love myself and accept myself just as I am". Trust me, not many.
2007-02-01 07:38:58 · answer #5 · answered by blue ocean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self-love - ok, i think of i understand what meaning, in line with threat....... confident - i admire myself whether i'm giving myself "self-love" or no longer - and that i'm the only participant in the room, in spite of the undeniable fact that, I even have had some long-distance the help of an intensive pal.
2016-11-23 20:55:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to love yourself in order to truelly love others...and what i mean by love yourself is to accept your faults and your mistakes and grow from them..acknowledge that u are not perfect...no-one is and just accept that your a decent human being trying to make it in this big bad world...embrace who u are as an individual and try to grow as a person, im sure u possess great qualities u just need to realize that... and loving ones self comes when you are mature and can look at these things w/ an open heart and mind...are u feeling me?
2007-02-01 07:37:20 · answer #7 · answered by kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would feel you are a worthy person. You would not berate yourself and go on and on about things. This does not you would always be right about things, just thatyou would believe in self worth, like God loves you!
2007-02-01 07:41:18 · answer #8 · answered by desertflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to love yourself, which means have pleasant thoughts in the brain, or positive, Keep body in shape.
Look neat in public.
2007-02-01 07:32:46 · answer #9 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1 take a shower
2 smile
3 take up a hobby
4 things which will benefit you heart, soul, and mind.(hygiene thats also a given)
2007-02-01 07:35:03 · answer #10 · answered by gutten abend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋