Ok this is the situation, I've been with my boy friend for almost a year, I met him on a night club, he was with some friends, and I was with mines, in first time I was going for this guy Paul (this is the best friend), my group got close to him's and we started to dance together, but I didn't get any chemistry with Paul, but with Patrick (my bf) there was so much energy between, we really conected... any way, It's been a year since then, and I've seen Patrick's friends a lot o times in parties and clubs, but in the last party Paul told me he has a crush with me, and I'm a little confuse because I still like him pretty much, but I also like my bf and have this strong feelings for him... I think I shouldn't do anything and ignore Paul, but since I know this I have dreams with Paul, and are kind of hot dreams (LOL)... I need some opinions about this. TKS
2007-02-01 07:28:53 · 20 answers · asked by Zaid G 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think you already know the right thing to do. Keep Paul in your dreams.
2007-02-01 07:33:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
When you choose to be a friend it is because you believe you are good for somebody else. Take out of the equation how good somebody else is for you. You can only judge how good you are for another. Let this be the determining factor. If you think you are better for somebody than anybody else then you should focus on that person. It means being a thermostat rather than being a thermometer. Just by naming what you are considering "cheating" you are diminishing yourself. Forget it.
2007-02-01 07:43:21 · answer #2 · answered by wes park 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you and Patrick have not yet wed, it's OK to peter Paul and not marry.
2007-02-01 08:06:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's this simple: when you are with one person, you don't mess around with someone else. That's disrespecting the person you are with and treating them poorly. Nobody should do that to someone else. If you want to be with the other person, then you should break up with the one you are with first - that is the only right thing to do.
2007-02-01 07:33:53 · answer #4 · answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK...if u like ur BF stay w/ him! & if u like Paul,dump the other guy.Dont Cheat! they'll just both end up hurt! u cant have 2 lovers!!!!
2007-02-01 07:35:14 · answer #5 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry if you want to hear something else, but I think that if you are committed to one guy, then that is your guy. Paul should be off limits!
2007-02-01 07:41:51 · answer #6 · answered by Tikhacoffee/MisterMoo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you will only end up hurting your b/f and probably end their friendship as well. will it be worth it? think of the consequences before you do anything wild and crazy.
but you could still be friends with the other guy (just friends)
friendship means just as much.
good luck :)
2007-02-01 07:34:52 · answer #7 · answered by ~muffun~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So are you gonna give away everything that you have for a quick roll in the hay?
2007-02-01 07:48:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever dreamed you were falling from a very high place?
Maybe you should try that dream also.
2007-02-01 07:33:48 · answer #9 · answered by Spider John 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, cheat on your boyfriend with his best friend. Seems like the smart thing to do to me!
2007-02-01 07:33:59 · answer #10 · answered by Patrick C 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋