i might be pregnant and the guy is overseas hwo shoudl i tell him now on the phone or email or wait til he comes home in dec when the baby is here?
2007-02-01 07:24:09 · 12 answers · asked by ladywetherell23 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I would call him, It is something best said, In "voice" if it can't be said in person. But you shouldn't wait till he gets home, he deserves to know now, and might just give him something to look forward to. :)
Best of Luck and Congrats!
2007-02-01 07:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by Thia K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well since you said you might be pregnant I would find out for sure before getting all stressed about having to tell him.. second if you are if it were me I would call him its so much nicer and means so much more to tell them then emailing them because then its true you get a true reaction and response from him and you can hear that hes happy which will be nice for you to hear..
2007-02-01 07:30:43 · answer #2 · answered by Princesskitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it as soon as possible by phone. Since you can't see him in person, the phone is much more personable than e-mail. I would not wait until the baby is born. He deserves to share in the joy of his baby to be. If he's in the military, it might help to raise his spirits.
2007-02-01 07:44:22 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't wait to tell the him. It is important that he knows that he is going to be a dad. The last thing he needs is to have it spung on him that he is a dad. The best thing to do is call him on the phone and let him know. If you were the man, would you want to know right away or wait?
2007-02-01 07:28:37 · answer #4 · answered by tweety 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you two in a relationship? If he has access to regular phone or email use I would tel him (of course, this is AFTER you verify the pregnancy). If he has no access you can send him a letter or something to that affect. Best of luck.
2007-02-01 07:27:18 · answer #5 · answered by duckygrl21 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you know for sure and tell him on the phone. Do not wait. He will want to know as soon as possible. Good luck and God bless!
2007-02-01 07:27:04 · answer #6 · answered by lilmama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you are saying you "might be pregnant". First off, find out if you are for sure. If you are, you should tell him before he comes home so he has time to mentally prepare himself to be a father.
2007-02-01 07:28:48 · answer #7 · answered by waitingforbaby#1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find out for sure first if your pregnant and reach him the best way you can.if you cant reach him through telephone then email him.you may even want to send him a care package with things hinting that your having a baby.
2007-02-01 07:35:32 · answer #8 · answered by plus size diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you take ur home test go to the doctor and get it confirmed then as soon as you find out he needs to know, waiting on things like this kinda ruins relationships, i say you tell him over the phone
2007-02-01 07:27:52 · answer #9 · answered by GA Bull Dawg 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you know for sure and tell him over the phone. E-mail is impersonal. I wouldn't wait until December though and then surprize him; it may make him mad and doubt that it is his baby.
2007-02-01 07:46:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋