This kid is just an acquaintance but is pretty nice to me. He never had any problem accepting me in groups or sitting next to me in class, (we happened to sit next to each other in two different classes) and was pretty nice. You know, he'd sit next to me and this other girl he was pretty close friends with and if she wasn't there most of the time he'd move to sit with other friends but thats understandable because I'm so shy (but nice) and I don't really talk to people that much. But the only thing that made me wonder is they blocked me from myspace, which might mean nothing. I mean the kid is pretty selective about who is on the friend list, I mean, its like you have to meet certain criteria or whatever, and takes people on and off for apparently no reason. He hates some of them but doesn't hate others. And you can usually tell if he hates someone because hes mean or doesn't try to be nice. With me and this other girl he took off his list he is civil at least. And the other thing that makes me think he doesn't hate me is that the other night when I got to a party I was going to sit in a chair in the living room and he said sit on the couch with him and some other girls. Maybe he just thinks I'm too shy or something, and theoretically if you block someone they don't know they have myspace so that way I wouldn't know, but I mean I can't help it you shouldn't judge people like that.
2007-02-01 07:11:19 · 5 answers · asked by leena 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it's doesn't sound very nice of him to block you from myspace at all!!! i know you're trying to justify that, but it sounds wrong.
don't worry about if people like you, be who you are and don't go around trying to please other people. it sounds like he has a huge ego thing goin on. and, honestly let him worry about 'if you like him or not.' but, it doesn't sound like you're goin to do that either.
expect others to treat you as you do them! don't except less!!!
2007-02-01 07:28:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he does think you are too shy...but you clearly have no problem giving a lot of information, based on the amount of verbiage in this posting.
Look - what you should worry about is how you are doing in school and what you plan to do after graduation.
For now, he's just some strange little guy who probably has an inferiority complex and has no legitimate reason to block you from myspace (as if you should care!).
Life is too short to dwell in other peoples problems!
2007-02-01 15:33:26 · answer #2 · answered by docscholl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem here is that you don't understand how men think. I may be entirely the wrong person to answer this, because I once had a girl refer to me as a cold hearted bastard. But for what it's worth, any random event could have caused those things to happen. This is because to us, relationship things don't matter, unless they become so insurmountable that you can't ignore them. That is because we live in the physical, not emotional, world. We don't have relationship radar, we aren't ever "there", and I, for one, have yet to experience an emotion. That's just the way we are. I'm just a little more of a cold hearted bastard than most people.
2007-02-01 15:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by ian_eadgbe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well this kid sounds like a real asshole which he could explain cause he's a boy. Do worry bout what he thinks of you.
2007-02-01 15:16:07 · answer #4 · answered by Kat T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shud talk to him
i think he might like you by the way
because he avoided you
2007-02-01 15:49:47 · answer #5 · answered by ared 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋