But your sister doesn't like him like that, and he knows it! He loves you, but he is struggling... Any good suggestions? No bullcrap, please. He's a good man.
2007-02-01 06:57:30 · 13 answers · asked by Bec P 2 in Business & Finance ➔ Personal Finance
This is quite a situation-number one is he just a boyfriend or do you have feelings involved. If he is just a boyfriend continue to be a friend but allow some space so a little time is spent with the sister around. Check things out as they communicate as she will show signs of like or disgust. He will have to see the signs. He will want to share them with a friend that will be you. This can be simple if she tells him point blank the attraction isn't there. Also the sister may just be doing this because she don't want to hurt you. This means that you have to be sure that if she wants a good man to love if love comes to be her true feelings. A good man is hard to find so be gentle. Now if you are truly in love with him do nothing and allow the sister to continue to overlook him and always be around for support and have enough love for the two of you to go forward.
2007-02-01 07:29:02 · answer #1 · answered by engalious 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but he's no good man if he's eyeing your sister. That is some messy Jerry Springer quality stuff. If he told you he's probably trying to make you be more like she is and he needs to love you for who you are ( and you need a man who loves you for who you are). If she told you them he's proably been talking to her in private a definite no no. What really bother's me is your rush to defend him. You deserve a man that think the sun rises and sets on you. When I'm in love no other man even looks good to me and my boyfriend now makes me feel the same. Don't get me wrong we can find beauty in others but realize that the laughter, memories, and love can not be found in another pretty face, even one that shares DNA.
2007-02-01 07:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by fbarkon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can he be a "good" man if he is in love with your sister? I'd love to hear the explaination on that one. Oh yeah he's a good man but has the hots for my sis. Sounds like a winner.
2007-02-01 07:01:38 · answer #3 · answered by Army wife 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not know what kind of man he is, but i would not stay with him. It has to be hard that he loves your sister. does she know about it? if so maybe she could tell him that she does not feel the same way as he does. That is a toughie hunny. He just might be a good man, but do you want a man who will fall in love with other woman. Do whats in your heart, but be careful. good luck
2007-02-01 07:02:39 · answer #4 · answered by carriec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um.. I would start to wonder about how faithful he is if he is in love with your sister. And hopefully your sister is over the age of 18 or it's big trouble for him if he tries anything. I would definitly find someone else who isn't going to fall in love with your family members.
2007-02-01 07:01:33 · answer #5 · answered by Askme a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was a "good man" you wouldn't be with him and know he loves your sister.
2007-02-01 07:03:04 · answer #6 · answered by pedohunter1488 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not your boyfriend if he is in love with your sister, get over it
2007-02-01 07:00:25 · answer #7 · answered by Baw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he isn't committed to you 100% the relationship is not worth pursuing. Go find a man that wants you and only you.
2007-02-01 07:01:41 · answer #8 · answered by jsssika 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he has admited that he has a thing for your sister, its time for you to say goodbye. Good man or no.
2007-02-01 07:00:14 · answer #9 · answered by Jon S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him, If he truly loved you he wouldnt love your sister.
2007-02-01 07:05:03 · answer #10 · answered by Shara S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋