My live in bf(of 5months, and our first child is due in June)has been having"online affairs" I have gotten copy/pasted message archives from him and a cpl of girls, from yahoo. In these messages are very sexual explicted. He makes "dates" w/them(when he is telling me he is playing poker w/the boys)in one case he tells this girl, he thinks about her daily and loves her(she lives 50miles plus from us)she has even threaten me in these messages 2 him(and states she doesnt want him to marry me..she has a bf too!)He sneaks online when I am not in the house(like when I go to prenatal appts, etc)masterbates via webcam, and calls them while I am gone, as well. I have confroted him about it. He says"I say alot of crap, but I mean none of it" and that he never met any of them, or cheated physically. I have expressed that I do not want him to talk to them anymore(specially that one homewrecker)He says he wants to ask her"why"I got those copy/pastes(as if she will admit) any1 deal w/this?
2007-02-01 06:50:37 · 9 answers · asked by May-May`s mommy 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Pack your bags and get outta there!
If he is emotionally connecting with online girls, then he is emotionally NOT there for you. I think cheating online is very close to cheating physically; all your missing is the penetration.
Get out of this crappy relationship before you bring a baby into it. Start over!
2007-02-08 04:31:53 · answer #1 · answered by laura g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a serious question (problem) and it deserves a serious answer. unfortunately, this section has been overrun by trolls and ignorant idiots, and little kids who know nothing as can be seen by looking at the 1st two answerers. now, there are still some good people in here, smart, educated, ready and willing to help, but they are few. i would advise you to ask your local Imam or even ask one online, because here people will mostly say stupid things to annoy you, or they may give bad advice or tell you what you already know. for example. my best advice, patience and avoidance. but you know that already and you even said avoidance is hard due to certain circumstances. i am sorry i can't really help you, but i wanted to answer to inform you about the ignorance and trollishness that has poisoned this section so you may be aware of it before you expect genuine help or wisdom or try to ask again. @ANONYMOUS, take your own advice and also you too irishgirl, you both need help with your unhealthy obsessions and ignorance
2016-03-29 00:08:33 · answer #2 · answered by Rosa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him to the curb girl. He's a player, and you and the baby don't need this. I would keep copies of these e-mails, and maybe even give the police a copy of them. Show him you're serious about this. It's either you or his "affairs". A cheater is a cheater. Another thing, you don't know he's not physically pursuing any of these women. I hope for you and your baby's sake you are using safe sex practices. You can always check up on him by checking the history page on the computer. Good luck.
2007-02-08 09:01:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already KNOW the answer... dump da chump! he is bad news and baby or no I am sure you can do MUCH better. Or the alternative is to keep putting up with this and wondering all the time from now on if he's being straight with you or not...GD LUCK!
2007-02-02 10:41:50 · answer #4 · answered by Thankyou4givengmeaheadache 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems he has a problem with sex. If he is horny, how come he doesnt go to you? I say get rid of the computer. If he cheats in real life, BOOT his ***! Good luck with the baby!
2007-02-08 04:12:57 · answer #5 · answered by Renee D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is cheating is cheating.
And, online infidelity is a very charted body of water.
2007-02-05 17:22:42 · answer #6 · answered by HA! HA! HA! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not in love with you. Very sorry you really didn't need to hear that. So what are you going to do? If he stays with you he will continue to do as he is.
2007-02-05 11:08:39 · answer #7 · answered by Shelly t 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey that IS cheating. Just because he's online dosen't mean it's not real people. LEAVE. RUN!
2007-02-08 04:23:59 · answer #8 · answered by missi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watching porn might get him wanting to cheat he's got a girlfriend you
2007-02-06 09:13:17 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋