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well in my opinion I think it is the older couples in the 30-60 age group. They have had life experience good or bad. They have a better idea what they are looking for and are more mature and loving mates. They have learned to stand up for their rights and learned to compromise to keep the relationship together. They have a deeper understanding of love and not so much looks and lust.

2007-02-01 06:01:29 · answer #1 · answered by marilee w 4 · 0 0

That is an oxymoron. How can you gauge the success of a couple who has just been married? Things are always wonderful in the beginning. It's later, when life happens to you and the going gets REALLY rough that you are tested, and even later still before a real determination can be made of whether or not a relationship is "successful".

Or perhaps your question is more, "At what age do successful couples marry?" Not an easy question either since the word "successful" is open to interpretation.

Do you mean non-divorced couples or couples where both partners say they are truly happy? How long do they have to be together before they can be considered "successfully happy and still married?"

What about the effects of country and culture? In many cultures, girls are married at a young age to a man selected by their parents and with whom they spend the remainder of their lives. Does it count towards the average age if she was married at 17 to a man she didn't love? What if 60 years later they're still married and she appreciates and respects him and has even grown to care for him deeply but she never truly fell in love with him? Is that successful? Or what if 60 years later they aren't married anymore. Is it because she was too young or because her parents influenced her to marry a man she did not care for?

There is no age alone that is a predictor of success in marriage. Each relationship is unique and has to be evaluated on its own merit. You could find an average I suppose. But that wouldn't necessarily mean anything to any specific couple.

Finally, this statistic means nothing by itself... what if you were to put it aside the average marrying age of all divorced couples... what might it tell you then?

My point is that there is no way to calculate the answer to your question with any degree of certainty that the number truly represents what your question implies... that people who marry at a certain age have a better chance of success in marriage.

2007-02-01 06:12:19 · answer #2 · answered by BWS 1 · 0 1

Those who marry over the age of 25, have the most successful marriages.

2007-02-01 06:03:57 · answer #3 · answered by Answer Girl 2007 5 · 0 0

I was married at 24...divorced at 34. I would say that the older the couple the better. They've had time to sow their wild oats.

2007-02-01 06:03:14 · answer #4 · answered by bluesbreaker65 2 · 0 0

Don't know. But, women shouldn't get married until minimum of 25 and men should be at least 30 or older. Before that you aren't mature enough to understand the consequences of getting married and living together FOREVER. People tend to forget that part.

2007-02-01 06:00:10 · answer #5 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0 2

Late twenties to early thirties

2007-02-01 06:53:53 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0 0

I have been married for 3 years.... The best thing I was told by someone who has been marrage 55 yrs. was LISTEN TO THE WOMAN... She will tell you everything you need to hear to make it work.. but at the sametime she need to do the same... Remember you both are a TEAM!!.. There is no 'I' in team.... I know thats cheesey but its true... also Kiss every night before you close your eyes... NO MATTER HOW mad you are at each other. Never go to sleep mad, NEVER SAY YES DEAR... it doesnt work. in fact it will just get your butt in bigger trouble...and if you dont know what wrong.. Its something you did. and i you dont know what that is. tell her "I know I did or have said something wrong and I would like to talk about it whenever you are ready."

2016-05-24 02:24:13 · answer #7 · answered by Margaret 4 · 0 0

I would think 32

2007-02-01 06:02:01 · answer #8 · answered by saran_d 2 · 0 0

I saw one poll and they said 33

2007-02-01 05:59:25 · answer #9 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0 0

im 22 and my husband is 26, we are happily married.

2007-02-01 06:03:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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