2007-02-01 05:51:30 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Thank you all for sharing.
2007-02-08 13:36:31 · update #1
Marraige is a complicated union. The key to it is communication. If you are in a relationship that has conflict regarding these issues prior to marraige, then you will most likely have conflict after marraige too. The compromise comes when you have children and want to decide what their faith should be (ie. should they be baptized, should they go to church/mosque/synagogue etc.). If the person has spoken to their spouse to be, and a compromise has been reached, then all is well and good. Another good way to solve this problem is to let the child choose. The same goes for political views, as long as you are okay with them believing the way they believe politically, and they are okay with yours, then there is nothing to talk about. Summarily, it all comes down to loving the person, if you love who they are, then you won't want to change them or their beliefs, if you are seeking to change them, then you don't really love them, and shouldn't be marrying them in my opinion.
2007-02-01 05:59:21 · answer #1 · answered by James L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My spouse and that i've got been married greater beneficial than 23 years. We too have some very good innovations that are distinctive. We the two selection a great deal on the two non secular ideals and politics. although, we don't enable it get between our relationship. We basically agree that we the two have a appropriate to our own ideals. there have been circumstances while we argued over some themes. while this occurs we comprehend that neither one is going to alter the others innovations suitable to the concern. We comprehend one yet another sufficient to easily end and go away the project on my own. Our concern isn't comparable to yours in one way. We did no longer have any infants. Now we are at an age the place we sense that we are somewhat previous to have infants now. So for us how we'd advance infants isn't a controversy. For you that is an particularly enormous concern. You the two might desire to frivolously communicate this out "until now you have infants". You the two might desire to come to a determination what you will practice your infants and how. in case you haven't any longer have been given an information which you would be able to the two stay with, you will remorseful approximately it. no longer in basic terms that any infants think ofyou've have been given gets caught on your warfare.
2016-11-02 01:38:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes allot of work that in the long run, can cause some pretty hairy situations. I was in a serious relationship with a very devoted Christian. I don't follow any religion and at first, we managed okay. A few spats here and there about the way I spent my Sunday morning's nursing a hangover while she's at church. We were very much in love for a long time though and marriage was in the cards. But as I said, it created some rather unhappy times that we were both smart enough to realize far down the road, it wasn't the best of choices to get married. We soon parted ways. We're still friends, I attended her wedding and she's invited to mine.
2007-02-01 05:56:46 · answer #3 · answered by no name brand canned beans 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The love of my love has different political and religious views than mine but that has never been a problem in our relationship as he is very tolerant.
2007-02-01 06:03:59 · answer #4 · answered by nelabis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Religious views, no. Political views, yes. That is my marriage now. 17 years and still in love.
2007-02-01 06:00:56 · answer #5 · answered by mikey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. Afterall, I would marry the man only if i'm in love with him. And if i love him, wouldn't that signify that I love who he is & feel that our personalities are compatible? I think if religion or political views are going to be a problem, you would be able to figure that out before it comes to marriage. However, i do realise that people do face this problem even after marriage. But personally, i dont see it as being a problem for me.
2007-02-01 05:57:30 · answer #6 · answered by Kk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I'm married to someone that our views are different from mine on curtain topics and I'm better off not to bring up the topics that will end up in an argument. I like to keep the peace.
2007-02-01 06:03:31 · answer #7 · answered by Susie B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it would certainly make for some interesting and heated debates but how could any two people so different find ways to continue a relationship in a healthy manner like that. I personally wouldnt because it seems like a no-brainer that it wouls be a waste of time to even attempt to work through that mess
2007-02-08 05:17:32 · answer #8 · answered by chelee girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I depends on how deeply entrenched both yours and your partners views on these issues are. If these are a major part of your lifestyle/personality, then I suggest you seek someone of similar background. In general, religion and politics are hot button issues that tend to be highly divisive and emotional- its the same reason theyre so unwelcome in the workplace.
2007-02-01 05:57:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you asked me that 20 years ago, I would say go for it and marry anyone that you are inlove with. But today it seems political views and religion is taken very seriously. Think about how you want to raise your children. Will they go to his church or yours and does he or she care? Will you sacrafice your beliefs and not teach your children what you believe in because your spouse is insisting on teaching them his/her religion? It can get really messy and really hurtfull. All of this should be agreed upon before marriage and then you cannot go back on your agreement later or it could lead to divorse and hurt children.
2007-02-01 06:02:35 · answer #10 · answered by Lena 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋