Cutter since sixth grade now a freshman in high school.
I'm trying to stop this year it went down to scratching I totally messed up again tonight help. three of my great friends are already gone.....
this guy I loved, still love, says that he wont date me because things would be too wierd since we've been best friends forever I still talk to him but it hurts.
The blood I don't know I just have to see it to make sure I'm still alive. I feel like I deserve this pain, I'm afraid I may eventually end up killing myself.
HELP
2007-02-01 05:46:08 · 17 answers · asked by Laura 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think this is not the way to solve your problems. You should try to start over and do things for yourself that makes you happy. Maybe you should doing things that will take ur mind off all the things that are bothering you. You have to live for yourself, make yourself happy and change this life. Don't hurt yourself! You dont need to do that, you just need to move on and realize life does go on. You will make new friends! TRY. You will find another guy! TRY. You just have to be devoted and really get out there and do something. You dont deserve this pain...you didnt do anything wrong. Now, i dont know much about ur situations, but i feel like you should not blame urself. Dont destroy yourself, but put urself out ther and start over and make ur life worth living, and dont put urself down! No one should do that! Stay on the top and positive attitude about life is gonna get you there. I know its tough! but you need to be stronger!!!!! I hope everything works out...take this advice it cant go wrong.
2007-02-01 05:54:10 · answer #1 · answered by greengirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are other ways to solve problems cutting yourself is not helping you in anything you don't have to get depress for everything bad that happens just think of the good things that happen to you even if there were just a little bit be glad you are still alive and if has something to do with a guy remember there are other guys and that other guys will come around so for your own good stop cutting yourself
2007-02-01 13:52:52 · answer #2 · answered by Hummm... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to your guidance counselor NOW. Cutting isn't good therapy for yourself, and you must stop cutting as therapy. You need some help and telling someone is your first step to that. Your guidance counselor can help you and you can ask her to remain confidential if you want to. Please seek some sort of help. My son who is 14 almost 15 had a friend who was a cutter and she didn't seek help, and now she is gone, I wish she could have realized how many people loved and cared about her before she took her life. The funeral home was packed and a testament to how many lives she touched. Please please don't let this be you, your life and mental health are worth everything in this world, and believe me making a temporary problem permanent ISN'T something your friends and family will want to have to deal with.
2007-02-01 13:55:17 · answer #3 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need God in your life.
He loved u so much that he gave his only begotten son,
that who so ever believe in him will not perish but have
everlasting life.
Jesus loves U.
When God created u he made u special.
So know that u are alive and with a purpose.
May the spirit of the Lord fill your heart.
May u receive the healing power of Jesus over your life,
your heart and mind.
I pray for u and know that even though I don't know u,
u have someone who loves u and cares.
Be good to yourself and God Bless.
U only have 1 life to live so live it well.
2007-02-01 13:55:32 · answer #4 · answered by Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a counsellor. Cutting yourself may seem like it's helping you, but you are now addicted to the pain. YOU are alive, you can see that everyday in the mirror. YOU are worth living, so stop ruining your body with cutting. YOU don't need a guy to achieve happiness. YOU don't need yahoo answers, you need a professional who can and will help you.
Good luck, and I really do mean that!!
2007-02-01 13:50:54 · answer #5 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you for real? Do your parents know?
If you are afraid to tell them for some specific reason, RUN, DON'T WALK to your high school counselor. You need an adult's help and to get it you must talk about it.
This web article is a really good one about cutting. I hope you will read it.
2007-02-01 13:53:14 · answer #6 · answered by kramerdnewf 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you know you need help and you WANT help so that is the most important thing. The first thing you need to do is tell someone you trust who will stand by you and help you get through this. The next thing you need to do is go to therapy. Try a school counselor, trusted teacher, local minister, or anyone who can give you some help with what you are dealing with. You have been through alot and you are dealing with alot. You CAN NOT go through this all by yourself. Please, i'm begging YOU get someone who you trust to help you get through this.
2007-02-01 13:52:37 · answer #7 · answered by laangel464 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is to a support group that helps you with your cutting problem. You're not gonna be of any help to anyone with this fascination of cutting yourself. You need to fix yourself before you can let anyone else into your life. You coming here to ask for help is a brave thing to do. I commend you. Now start fixing your problems and don't be afraid to IM me should you need someone to talk to. Good luck, sweetie.
2007-02-01 13:52:33 · answer #8 · answered by padiwan2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really need to talk to someone about this! Do you have an older cousin, sibling, aunt or uncle that you trust? Please tell someone and make arrangements to see a pyschologist...you need help to deal with your depression and anxiety...cutting is NOT a healthy way to cope. There are many options for you so please don't feel like you have nowhere to turn. Tell your best friend/crush that you need him for support, and Im sure he will stick around. GOOOD LUCK
2007-02-01 13:50:57 · answer #9 · answered by Suki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get yourself to a doctor right now. Your behavior is not normal, and I'm sure you already know that. Tell your parents if they do not already know.
2007-02-01 13:50:06 · answer #10 · answered by melouofs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋