should i keep on talking to my cousin?

Question

my cousin cmen from mexico a year ago and now she thinks she is an american person. she tells everyone that she is from texas. my parents helped her for almost a whole year because she got separated from her husband. she got here from texas. days later after she got here my mom noticed that she kept on throwing up in the mornings. my mom took her to the doctor and she ended up being pregnant. she was 4 months already. when she was pregnant she became unsupportable. i began to hate her. now all she does is talk **** about me and my husband. my family tells me that she is just jealous of me because my son has more stuff than her. she is very ignorant. very!!! what should i do??? i know she is my cousin, but the way she behaves is zero tolerant for me.

Answer 1

Forget about her.

If she nags you, just leave her be and tell her she has the choice to leave on her own will. If she talks behind your back, confront her knowing that you're right about the whole matter and directly demand what she's doing. Make her look you in the eye and tell you what's up. If she makes a scene, just stand there staring at her and when she starts asking questions, give her the silent treatment, embarrassing her in front of everyone around you guys.

She's behaving like an upset irresponsible teenager, so that's how you gotta treat her. Don't feel bad about her or anything, just understand that she is who she is and that she has to learn to take care of herself.