i was always bullied when i was growing up but its made me the person i am today!!made me stronger!i was bullied for being taught at home..they thought i was a geek or something and bullied cause i made an effort in my appearance,girls hated that!!they felt they had to compete with me and then show their true signs of jealousy when they realised i was a genuine person and down to earth!!when i see some one i think is amazing looking i never get jealous and critisise them i look at them and admire their beauty!!
were you ever bullied and why??has it made you a different person today??
thanks for all your comments in advance xx
2007-02-01 05:44:46 · 14 answers · asked by Lydia K 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Thats awesome that your resiliant to these people , the girls were jelous because you look better than them and remember you were strong competition and guys wuld of probably choose you for being cooler than them or maybee not because they might be too easy but anyways thats good .
I was bullied because i let them i know that now i just got upset but from that i can just blow them off nowdays and come across being higher status because im unaffected , the other day someone was making fun of me here in Australia because of me being from the UK they were saying AAAAAhhhhhh your a Pommie prick .... i just said ...... " and whats your point its better than being bald " .... it turnes out he spent 10 mins trying to apologise and *** kiss me funny when they try and act cool then look like a jackass and you look cooler than them .
Its made me mentaly cold to peoples crap and i can act with higher status .
2007-02-01 06:03:51 · answer #1 · answered by badass-mofu 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes me andmy brothers ans sisters were bullied when we were little kids My mam died when i was 9 and my dad went on the piss and most of the time didn`t even bother to come home so it was me looking after the other 4 and we were bullied for years for being scruffs scrubbers and scroungers
but itdone me good because now i couldn`t care less what anyonesays or thinks about me .andi got beat up that many times where i am not afraid of pain and will stand and fight anyone
2007-02-01 14:13:59 · answer #2 · answered by keny 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Good for you my dear. I admire your positive attitude and your ability to turn it to advantage.
I was bullied once. In first grade. This big kid, the school bully, came to my desk to manhandle me. I stabbed his hand with my pencil. My first time to see a big boy cry. I am not sure that incident made me a better person, but I learned to pick my fights, be resourceful, and stand up when I think I must.
2007-02-02 08:19:48 · answer #3 · answered by McDreamy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was bullied at school because I liked things that were not mainstreem, I liked Rugby League and Darts over football (or soccer if you're an American) I liked (and still like) to read, write and draw, when I was at school, they were considered "Not mainstreem" so people bullied me because I chose to follow a different path of small entertainment. It hasn't daunted me though, I held my head high, and I didn't care (nor still do not care) what people think of me either!
2007-02-01 13:53:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
You want the list???
- Having more than one brain cell
- For being weird
- Lack of 'cool' friends
- Weight (damn diabetes. two injections a day, how the hell am I meant to eat properly on that?) - resolved with an incident involving shoving the girl whilst she was in stilletos - landed in gorse bush. That last bit was non intentional.
- Reading loads
- Lack of social skills on their part
I can't talk to small groups of certain people after some cow told me to 'f*** off' every time I opened my mouth for 3 years running. But I'm pretty much fine.
2007-02-01 15:29:28 · answer #5 · answered by phangedphluff 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I was bullied at school for being quiet & bullied at home by my father while growing up, it has made me a stronger person & i now stick up for myself more.
2007-02-01 13:57:10 · answer #6 · answered by april 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am bullied for apparently being a goth.
But I don't think myself one, not pretend to be one.
It isn't just remarks though, it's everytime they see a game where you kill goths, their like, "hey, this is Aki's game! All her croonies are here"
It's not just that, they look down on me because I don't follow the trends that society wants us to follow, I admit to being a little gothic but by far not a goth.
2007-02-01 13:50:42 · answer #7 · answered by Aki 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I have been bullied by the dang Jehovah Witnesses. They constantly harass me on Saturdays. I work all week and I have consistently told them NOT to knock on my door and yet they persist to do so.
2007-02-01 13:52:17 · answer #8 · answered by DeCaying_Roses 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yea I have been, by my so called mates at the time, cause I wouldn't do what they did - steal stuff etc. I have better mates now, duno if it's made me a better person or not.
2007-02-01 13:49:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
yes at primary school because i was made to go to school wearing the proper school uniform i think i was about the only kid in my class.
if any thing i think it has made me more timid perhaps now as an adult i try to blend in, and am afraid to be my self
kby.
2007-02-01 13:50:36 · answer #10 · answered by kennyboy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋