Okay, there's this Girl I hang out with and she's older than me (Im 21, she's 32), she Really doesn't act her age at all When it comes to what she wears and taking care of her 6 kids. Ive been a really good friend to her like buying her stuff on my Credit card to the point that I maxed them out and I know they say you cant Buy friends, but I have compassion on her because she didn't (at the time have much clothes) Anyway yesturday she went on this date with this guy and She told me that she really didn't like him because she's in Love with somebody else So I figure that I tell her the truth because that's what REAL friends do, So I Texted her and said that put yourself in this guy's shoes and think what he's thinking, he's on a date with you and he likes you and Have no clue that you in love with somebody else, And she said that she's going to tell him that its someone else, But she went on the date anyway and I guess she found that text offensive, I was just being honest! Advice Plz!
2007-02-01 05:39:13 · 5 answers · asked by kittysweetie19 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
So Continuing, today at school (I go to College), she Like totall embarrased me in front of the Dean of Students and called me a Whore and a slut and that I need to go put a Dick in my Mouth and that the Guy she's in Love with, She said I was after him the Whole time, I mean she just went psycho! Saying all this stuff to me knowing that I bent over backwards showing what a Good friend I am just makes me Think if she Ever was a True friend to me at all or Was it fake friendship to Get something out of me, like using me for my Car and my fashion sense and Money and following me around town and stuff, I mean the girl stalkes a Bus driver (The guy she claim she's in Love with) for heaven't Sake? What do you Think America, am I wasting my Time and Loyality on a Hater like Her??
2007-02-01 05:48:45 · update #1
The Dean of Students of the college I go to said that he Would kick us both out of the School if we didn't stop arguing and Im thinking to myself that I didn't start this, I was on my way to class when she Stopped me and tried to ask me about the text and All I told her was if I wasn't a friend, then I would not have been honest with you and that if the Text offended you, then oh well. I mean, I know what it feels like to be Played when it comes to Dates and if she had No intensions with that Guy, Let him Be, Damn! don't string somebody along because the Guy your in Love with thinks your Psycho for stalking him at his job and on the Bus! Im in a Crazy situation, What do I do, Help!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-01 05:54:39 · update #2
She'll get over it and stop buying her stuff in less it's like an emergency (milk, food for kids) it's tough being a single parent with one kid and six that must be rough. Don't try and buy her friendship if she really wants to be your friend then she will. good luck.
2007-02-01 05:43:35 · answer #1 · answered by juicy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think your not doing anything wrong!! She totally needs to grow up. You also are being a great friend with buying her stuff, but you need to put that to a limit, because it just seems like you can get takin advantage of. You dont want that. If she was a good friend to you then she would totally understand your honesty and she shouldn't go on a date with someone she doesnt like because thats just messing with someones feeling and its just not right!!
2007-02-01 13:47:58 · answer #2 · answered by greengirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think that your an awsome friend because what you said was right. Thats the main PROBLEM with people now these days....they only think about themselves and never the other person!!!!
2007-02-01 13:46:29 · answer #3 · answered by cookiemonster31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there only so much help you can give a friend.. after awhile they gotta start helping themselves!.. if she doesnt then at one point accepting help becomes taking advantage of someone
2007-02-01 13:45:35 · answer #4 · answered by LaDy A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE NEEDS TO GROW UP!!! For herself and her kids. And you should put your $$$ away!!!
2007-02-01 13:42:37 · answer #5 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋