how can u tell if your hubsband is still in love with u?

Question

Not just loving u but still in love with u they r 2 diffrent things, someone please help.What r the signs?

Answer 1

sweetie the best thing to do is speak with him about this. If he has neglected you feelings then there's nothing you can do about it. But if you haven't even confronted these problems and seen eye to eye on them there is no reason to be asking questions. Every relationship is quiet diff. and the only one that knows to an extent would be you. Go talk to him right now and if you doubts only broaden then come back and ask us questions more specifically. Good Luck on your hunny bunny

Answer 2

As the anniversaries roll along at times it may seem as though something is missing.. When in actuality life happens, kids come, grow and you get old. Communication is the key. If a couple makes time daily to debrief each other and try to get away from the kids once a week the marriage strong. The "emotions" of loving and Love come and go, it's not a matter of "do they exist" it is a matter of believing because the marriage exists even though the feeling aren't as prevalent. they are still present.

Try date nights, this brings my wife and I close for one night a week at IHOP or Village Inn without our teenagers.
Love is Action not a feeling.

Think about this blurb from COuntry Music several years ago.

Artist: Clint Black Lyrics
Title: Something That We Do Lyrics
I remember well the day we wed
I can see that picture in my head
I still believe the words we said
Forever will ring true
Love is certain, love is kind
Love is yours and love is mine
But it isn't something that we find
It's something that we do
It's holding tight, lettin' go
It's flying high and laying low
Let your strongest feelings show
And your weakness, too
It's a little and a lot to ask
An endless and a welcome task
Love isn't something that we have
It's something that we do
We help to make each other all that we can be
Though we can find our strength and inspiration independently
The way we work together is what sets our love apart
So closely that you can't tell where I end and where you start
It gives me heart remembering how
We started with a simple vow
There's so much to look back on now
Still it feels brand-new
We're on a road that has no end
And each day we begin again
Love's not just something that we're in
It's something that we do
We help to make each other all that we can be
Though we can find our strength and inspiration independently
The way we work together is what sets our love apart
So closely that you can't tell where I end and where you start
Love is wide, love is long
Love is deep and love is strong
Love is why I love this song
And I hope you love it too
I remember well the day we wed
I can see that picture in my head
Love isn't just those words we said
It's something that we do
There's no request too big or small
We give ourselves, we give our all
Love isn't someplace that we fall
It's something that we do

Answer 3

If he comes home, stays in the same room as you (reading or watching TV etc.), if he is always up for more than just sleep, if he helps you with whatever you ask, he chats with you and asks about your day, if he takes you out in public, if he is fulfilling your needs on a daily basis, if he doesn't pick fights or brings you down, then congrats the love is still there and he is happy and content to be with you.
Beware if your husband chooses to stay away, picks fights, degrades you, starts working late more often or goes out with the boys more often.

Answer 4

I just have to look in my husband eyes to know that he adores me. The whole love/in love thing is over-rated. You can feel if you are loved or not. I could be upset with my guy or him with me. Doesn't make the love for each other fade. Just look deep or shallow whatever. You know.

Answer 5

Actions speak louder then words hon! My husband shows me every day in the things that he does and says. He calls me from work everyday to just say hi and see how my day is going! I love this about him!

Answer 6

If he is still is in love with you, he still wants to be around you, is affectionet with you, still likes to hold and cuddle with you, make love you, not just give it to you. You can tell by the way he looks at you.

Answer 7

the only way 2 really tell is if he still looks at u like he first did ... and kisses u like u like and if he makes you feel good about your self ... guys have crazy ways of makein you feel good about ur self you jus gotta find out his way and have a talk with him ...
~amber~

Answer 8

well first of all if you have to ask that question then you have problems. Suggest going to counciling, if he agrees then he in love w/you and will help you through your doubts.

Answer 9

If you have to ask this question, the answer is not looking favorable that he loves you ... sorry, but think about it

Answer 10

Communication, trust, caring, honesty, doing little things for each other without asking, little looks that are good, quality time together...........