2007-02-01 05:19:18 · 15 answers · asked by Lirltravia G 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Just be straight.
2007-02-01 06:11:08 · answer #1 · answered by Joey L 1 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Simple. You Don't. My mom does not hate gay people; she is very against it and I think she really knows about me but does not want to be confronted with it. So I just wont tell her. She doesnt need to know if she doesnt want to. If you are fine with not telling her, then dont sweat it. The thing is, if you are obvious, she may figure it out herself and come and ask you about it. I dont know your mother so I cant really say how you are going to handle that. But if she hates gays all that much, there's not much you can do. People like that dont change much. Some learn but very few. Feel it out and see what happens. You may be able to tell her some day if you need to. Take it as it comes. No matter what anyone tells you, it has nothing to do with being true to yourself when it comes to parents. I know cause I'm in the same situation. 2 of my friends came out to their folks and it was devastating. Why they want me to do it now is beyond me. Anyway, good luck to you whatever you decide.
2007-02-01 13:37:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Rule of thunb: DON"T tell her you're gay unless you're self-supportive; have your own place to live, buy your own meals and stuff -- don't rely on your mom for finance at all. If you're stuck in a rut, you need to find a way to move out before telling her because my parents and entire family as a matter of fact hate gay people, and I'm gay btw, so I know how you feel.
2007-02-01 15:04:47 · answer #3 · answered by xander 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can she hate a gay person??
well i would ask her why she hates gay people frist, at some point of time she would tell you....but if you perfer to tell her right on that ur gay go ahed but be very carefull,and cautious with what you tell her,and be strong even though she hates gay people,breath and then tell her....your child i dont think an own mother can hate their own chlid for being gay or for being whom they are. She has to understand who you really are and why ur this way. yor gona have to tell her at some point in ur lifetime.
BREATH AND BE BRAVE AND TELL HER ^_^
2007-02-01 13:49:21 · answer #4 · answered by vicky 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her by saying Mom why do you hate me? she will say well what makes you think I hate you dear? you say well I know you hate gay people dont you?She will say I really dont hate them I just dont agree with the gay thing.She will say why do you ask? you say because I think im gay and I dont want you to hate ME.
2007-02-01 13:37:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How important is it to you that she knows? You're 17 according to your past questions. In another year you can be on your own. I'd wait until you have your own place, then your mom can have her hissy fit all she wants after you break the news to her, without upsetting you because you can just go back to your place while she cools off. Probably she'll eventually cool down and realize she loves you anyway, always has, always will. Good luck.
2007-02-01 13:34:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
this question depends a lot on your age .but you sound old enough to come clean your not afraid of telling her .but you are afraid of how she will feel about you after wards if she really loves you today ,which i/m sure she does .then she will love you tomorrow. to break the ICE say mom i/m not straight/ the only things that belonge in your closet is your clothes
2007-02-02 22:41:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ewww... You like to stick your penis up boy bums and get poo all over it. You are perverted and disgusting. Like girls. Let your mom hate you. Stop being such a ******. I would rather cut off my dick than be gay. So, cut off your cock. Or, be a man, and just STOP BEING GAY!
2007-02-02 00:12:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm...well I'm not sure how you should tell her but my friend is also gay and just told her parents upfront because she didn't want to hide it for the rest of her life.i'm not sure if that approach would help ya but i hope it does
2007-02-01 13:34:47 · answer #9 · answered by Lexi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well being gay doesn't seem to be your problem..I think you mother has a big problem however.
2007-02-01 14:07:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her. She might kick off, but eventually she will get used to the idea.If she does not accept you then it's her loss you have to live your life. Good Luck
2007-02-01 16:56:53 · answer #11 · answered by superstar68 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋