they are thick and skinny and they still they are fat
2007-02-01 05:17:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
They are thick or skinny and they still think there are fat even when we tell them there are not fat
2007-02-01 05:19:15 · update #1
Yea, my friend's friend thinks she's fat and she's actually really skinny. I don't think I'm fat, even though I'm really skinny too. I'm more afraid of being skinny than fat. When you're skinny, you aren't getting enough food. When you're fat, you're getting more food than you need, which is better than being skinny, but I'm not saying being fat is good.
2007-02-01 05:34:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi.
haven't you seen the articles and pictures in the magazines. how they deplete the way a woman should look. they suggest that women should look a certain way. this particular suggestion is intimidating to those who have low self esteem. always saying how much a tall woman should look at a certain height. a woman of 5'7' weighting 110 or less just ant healthy. or a woman who is the height of 5 feet even should weigh 80 pounds or less that is ridicules. and the guys don't make it any better if a girl puts on five pounds they make sure that they tell her in there stupid ways. if that is not enough there is always the good old fashion excuse we want to be beautiful for our guys . no matter how bad they look fr us.
2007-02-01 05:34:07 · answer #2 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I sure wish I had their problem, I had the gastric by pass lost 124 pounds then gained 50 of it back now I need to lose more.......so to all you skinny girls....look in the mirror as your not fat you just think you are...probably because someone like your B/F told you that. Yes, when i was in school years & years ago, my then B/F told me I was so fat & needed to lose weight, I weighed only 120 pounds! So gals, you look great i'm sure & I sure wish I had your problem!
2007-02-01 05:57:56 · answer #3 · answered by YAWN 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's all about self-confidence and self-awareness. We stress about that second chin, that roll of our tummies, or the fact that we don't fit into our high school jeans anymore. I think the mentality is if we can see it, and it irritates us, then by golly men should be horrified. If we don't feel we're sexy/thin/pretty enough, there's not enough compliments in the world to change our opinion.
2007-02-01 05:40:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We are just self-concious that's all, because we see others that are skinny-er than us, and we worry about it...just a girl thing.
2007-02-01 05:36:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
BLAME THE DAM*N SOCIETY AND ALL OF THE TV SHOWS THAT SHOW STICK SKINNY WOMEN!! ON TV THEY'RE ALWAYS SHOWING YOUNG GIRLS THAT THE ONLY WAY YOU CAN BE ACCEPTABLE IN THE EYES OF MEN IS IF YOU CAN SEE YOUR RIBS AND PANCRIAS!! MY SISTER THINKS THAT SHE'S FAT AND I ALWAYS TELL HER THAT SHE'S NOT BUT SHE DOESN'T BELIEVE ME. IT'S SICKENING. :(
2007-02-01 05:42:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is society that makes us feel that way and they way people treated us in the past.
2007-02-01 06:35:16 · answer #7 · answered by Ella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you don't see what they see.
Its a girl thing I suppose.
2007-02-01 05:39:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because its what we constantly see in mags, tv, online, ads, movies... blah, blah, blah, from the time we are like 5 years old
2007-02-01 05:21:22 · answer #9 · answered by diva 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋