im not attracted to men and im not against gay or trying different things so i figure ill make her happy. how should i go about getting with a guy or two for her to watch?
2007-02-01 05:13:22 · 17 answers · asked by Tommy Pistol 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
this is funny! this is what i get for leaving my account logged in around my co workers!
2007-02-03 14:29:33 · update #1
If you aren't attracted to men, this isn't exactly going to be a great experience for you. I'm all for pleasing your lady (heck, if I had a boyfriend, I'd be making the exact same requests), but does she know that you're not digging it? I mean- watching you have unenthusiastic sex doesn't sound like a recipe for turning her on.
Perhaps you could do something else that wouldn't have you so compromised . . . maybe find a guy who could do a sort of homoerotic strip-tease with you for her benefit? Watching gay porn together (she gets off on it and you, you get off on her)? Concocting stories about your being seduced or seducing another man? To me, these are all better ways of satisfying her desires without having to make a big sacrifice for her (not to mention that bringing other people into your bedroom is always a very tricky, dangerous situation).
If you're really set on it, try adultfriendfinder.com or a similar online dating/hookup site and use extreme caution and discretion when choosing someone, and meeting with them.
Whatever happens, good luck!
2007-02-01 05:29:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask (not necessarily just anyone) for some gay men it is a fantasy to be with a 'straight' guy. Just be careful, as these things can have a nasty habit of backfiring and it is you that is in the most vunrable position here!
2007-02-01 05:18:42 · answer #2 · answered by waggy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would strong advise you to keep this in the fantasy world. What makes you think she wouldn't use this against you when/if you break up?
I would suggest you tell her that you are not gay and that has no appeal to to you, however you would love to have sex with her and another woman, both dressed up like men. Check the other one out first to make she has the appropriate equipment.
2007-02-01 06:07:10 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Advertise.
2007-02-01 05:46:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would rent a dvd and watch it. If you really don't like what they are doing on the screen, then don't do it in real life. Your girl should understand.
2007-02-01 05:26:39 · answer #5 · answered by ron s 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
WOW - that's hot!
There are several different sites you can check out, including gay.com, passion.com, adam4adam.com. You can also do a search for bisexual dating sites.
2007-02-01 08:58:34 · answer #6 · answered by behrmark 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You should let her do all the leg work since she is the one that wants to see it.
2007-02-01 05:38:14 · answer #7 · answered by courage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Click your heels together three times and shut your eyes...all will be well...oh! and wear the ruby slippers.
2007-02-01 06:09:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
try- www.gay.com
there are pleny of guys in the chat room that would jump at the chance . or you could just email me ;-)
2007-02-01 05:46:47 · answer #9 · answered by winstonbad 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
That doesn't make sense to me. If you are straight how could you go through with that act?
2007-02-01 05:30:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋