My boyfriend of 3 years, whom I live with, has regsitered on myspace and put himself as single. He has also said he doesn't want children even though he already has one!
He doesn't think there is anything wrong with his behaviour. Would you please tell me your thoughts so I can show him I am not 'weird' or 'mad' as he keeps calling me and that he is genuinely out of order.
2007-02-01 04:42:58 · 29 answers · asked by Reading girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
um, yeah he is definitely the one that should NOT be doing that, I don't have a problem with myspace but if he is not single and does have a child he should putt that on there b/c it will make you seem like he is doing something wrong, he is lying about his relations ship it definitly looks suspiciuse!!
2007-02-01 04:50:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he put himself as single on Myspace it doesn't take a rocket scientist to see he wants other women. If he has a child but says he doesn't want children what he is trying to say is he didn't even want the one he has and I'd bet he isn't even taking care of that one. All you are to him is a piece for now till he has something better to do or finds himself a new piece off Myspace. I say you pack your crap up and leave and go find yourself someone else. Stop wasting your time asking for advice on this guy when he isn't even worth the time it took for me to give it. MOVE ON!!!
2007-02-01 04:55:22 · answer #2 · answered by Lucinda M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I first registered my own account with MySPace, before I created my profile, it automatically selected the "single" choice and the "I don't want children" choice. I had to go back into my profile to change those selections after I finally saw them. If you trust him otherwise, let this go. He may not have been aware or may not think it's necessary to fill out the profile just to please you if he's doing nothing wrong. If you don't trust him, for whatever reason, perhaps it's time to figure out where you really stand in each others' lives.
2007-02-01 04:56:18 · answer #3 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not weird or mad. He just isn't ready to settle down and instead of being honest with you he is hanging on until something interesting comes along.He doesn't want kids yes because he already has one and knows that he isn't sure about you so why have a kid. I'm sorry but you need to hear this. The only reason someone would present themselves as single is to see who is interested in him. Are you sure didn't already think of this?
2007-02-01 04:57:04 · answer #4 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he lives with you, his relationship status should be "In A Relationship", not single. I would be suspicious of that too, especially since it says he doesn't want kids and he has one!
You have two options. You can talk to him, tell him that his behavior is not acceptable, and then deal with the potential that you may not be a couple for much longer. OR you can turn a blind eye and pretend that he's not showing you disrespect... when he cheats with someone on My Space you'll end up broken up and on your way to test for STDs.
I have nothing against My Space if used in a respectful manner. But my husband and I both show "married" and we have each other's pictures on our pages... translation: No one thinks we're single and date-able!
2007-02-01 04:58:47 · answer #5 · answered by Holding A Star 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what his purpose of posting as single without children is? I think it sounds to me like he is fishing from some action. Some fling action though not long term because no one wants to be with that much of a liar unless they are desperate and pathetic. I suggest you talk to him about it and if it doesnt help them post yourself as single/no kids/and available for anything and show him your webspace, then rub it into his face and tell him that you find it fun too...and yeah guys hit on you but you turn them down. or else leave the jerk if he wont change it.
2007-02-01 07:38:25 · answer #6 · answered by jennyve25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I met on myspace. He kept that he was single even when he was living with me while we were dating. A few girls were telling him how much they loved him and how they wanted to sleep with him. So I got pissed and told him I would not tolerate it because it was disrespectful. So he told me he deleted the account. So about a month or so later. He was on my laptop and I closed it to talk to him. So he made this sob story of how he was emailing his mother. So he went to the bathroom and I opened my laptop. And low and behold he had another account with all the girls that I talked to him about on this. Still telling him that they loved him and crap. It was outragous.
I personally would talk to him about it. Because from my own experience I know that myspace can only lead to drama.
2007-02-01 05:32:26 · answer #7 · answered by EMT_B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is just for friendssip that is fine but at the same time if he is wanting girlfriends and to cheat on you then dump him and move on.... You are not weird and you have a right to feel this way. If he continues to disreguard your feelings and knock you down for this then break up with him now and move on with your life. I would not stick with him if it were me as it would only get worse over time instead of better... He seems very selfish and that is no good and he does not seem to have any reguard or respect for how you feel.
2007-02-01 04:48:25 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel I recently found my hubby's profile on a singles sight. He put on ther that he was looking for erotic online sex chat and discreet sex. I was devastated and mad. I asked him about it and of course he denied it and said someone else must have set the account and profile for him. He doesn't see anything wrong with it but there is. It proves lack of committment i would move on hun you deserve better
2007-02-01 07:47:34 · answer #9 · answered by christyf25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not correct to put himself down as single if he is with you! So no you are not mad. But you could fulfil his desire by leaving him - or do the same! Or become wierd and mad to completely f@ck him off as he sounds a real t0sser!
(In all fairness - he may not have a desire 4 more children tho!)
2007-02-01 04:54:26 · answer #10 · answered by kiku 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋