I am a gay man and proud of it and not ashamed of it in anyway. I consider myself to be attractive and friendly. How come I cannot attract not one guy. What in the world am I doing wrong? Does anyone have any advice. Please no negative answers!
2007-02-01 04:38:33 · 11 answers · asked by xplot 7 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
My friend said to me that I am just too straight to be gay and that is my problem with finding someone. Just keep hopes up and someone will come along, I am going on a date tomorrow ;)
2007-02-01 04:43:17 · answer #1 · answered by Patches 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good to be so positive about yourself. Others around you will enjoy your confidence but do they know that you are looking for a guy. Talk to your friends about your feelings. They know you well and may have some advice for you. Go to places where gay men meet each other - groups for gay men. Straight guys are in the same situation - it takes courage to face rejection but keep trying and you will get the man of your dreams.
2007-02-01 04:45:03 · answer #2 · answered by Oldie from Bristol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't know you so I can only say that perhaps you're trying too hard or not enough. It's difficult also because I don't know where you are. Do you live in a big city or small town, that would be a factor. Also, are there gay areas (bar, restaurants) around. All these things are factors, but without knowing more this is all I can say. Sorry.
2007-02-01 04:43:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to put yourself out there. They aren't going to come to you, you have to go to them. Then you start talking. Once you get in with one or two you'll start meeting many. And don't be a sl%t, no one wants to get serious with a sl%t. You might get alot of one timers but thats no good. Remember, eye contact, hold your head high, shoulders back, walk like your belt buckle is your center of gravity and when you enter a room flash a smile. Make all eyes focus on you. Bring out your inner male model.
Now march out there and put this good lesson to some use. And remember, its alway forward, never straight. Go get 'em, Tiger! Do me proud.
2007-02-01 04:59:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, be urself, and show the world ur gay and proud of it.
let people get to know you, tell them what you are.sometimes other gay people care about how you dress if you dont dress the way gay men dress then they wont think of you that way.
BUT ALWAYZ TRY AND NEVER GIVE UP ^_^
2007-02-01 05:57:34 · answer #5 · answered by vicky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably looking in all the wrong places.
Try hanging out at public parks, cemeteries, truck stops, road side rest areas, and public men's bathrooms after dark. You'll have easy picking at these places, as they attract others who share the same interests as you.
2007-02-01 06:17:11 · answer #6 · answered by radical4capitalism 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try to attract gay men .
If u were tryin to attract straight men, it will never gonna work out with you ...you will be hurt a lot and u will be wastin your time too>>
good luck
2007-02-01 04:45:15 · answer #7 · answered by paranoid. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soul-mates are people who bring out the best in you. They are not perfect but are always perfect for you.
~Author Unknown
2007-02-01 04:48:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act naturally,maybe you are quite pretentious at times. Less talk and more result.
2007-02-01 04:42:52 · answer #9 · answered by javo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, what have you done? there are alot of gay men out there( and I happen to be one of them) you have to be your self I think
2007-02-01 04:45:12 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋