2007-02-01 04:26:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well its more than he comes home late. First off trust your instincts. If you in your hearts of hearts think he is than he probably is. Look for changes in his patterns, like when he leaves for works and when he comes home. If he usually leaves later in the morning but is rushing out the door in the early morning or is coming home WAY later than usual I would ask some questions. But even this doesn't mean you should be alarmed, his work load may have changed some. Another sign may be a lack of looking toward your for some TLC if he's not getting any from you and doesnt seem to have a problem...? But I would give him the benefit of the doubt at first, unless there are big signs you cant ignore. Try stopping by in the middle of the day at his work if you can to surprise him for lunch or meet him at what is supposed to be the end of the day for him and go to dinner with him. Just see how he responds to these sort of things. whatever you do dont start throwing accusations at him, for two reasons if he's not cheating he will have a hard time forgiving you and secondly if he is he will get more secretive. Good Luck and I hope he isnt!
2007-02-01 04:35:37 · answer #1 · answered by Tamra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a husband who has been there - a cheater, that is - Let me tell you a few things I think could be indicators.
1. Your physical relationship has changed. ie He doesn't show as much sexual interest in you.
2. He doesn't talk to you about the 'little' things in his life any more. We all need to share life experiences with someone. Are you still the one he talks to?
3. He is more willing to go out of the house for various reasons without you. He offers to take your car and gas it up or you say you need some milk and he volunteers to run out and get it.
4. You know he is paying more attention to a female friend than before. For instance, I would insist we go walking with the 'other couple' religiously.
There are also many other sites that give you plenty of indicators to watch for. If you want to talk about this more, you can email me.
2007-02-01 04:38:48 · answer #2 · answered by PCW 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I got a book called the SCRIPT its the 100% absolutly predictible things guys do when they cheat!! it is wonderful and yes a lot of this stuff wom en already know but some of these things caught me off guard!!! heres some of the names of the chapters, What about me, i would never do that, you need to see a psychiarist, and money talks it also follows the script!!! if you e-mail me later i will go into more details!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-01 04:35:33 · answer #3 · answered by Jess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well besides obvious things like lipstick on shirt collars or numbers from other women lying around the house. But if you really want to know, you can A) hire a Private investigator or B) ask him.
Good luck
2007-02-01 04:36:03 · answer #4 · answered by Chrystal 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
buy spyware and install it on his computer...it only costs about $20-$25 and when u type in a secret code, it will tell u every thing that he ever typed on his key board. the last thing u need to do is ask him... since u r asking us, it probably means u can't trust his answers, which means that he will probably just cover his tracks. hiring a p.i. is also effective, unless u'r good at that type of thing, then u might can do it u'r-self and coordinate it with the help of some close friends
2007-02-01 04:33:01 · answer #5 · answered by jason x 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Look to see if he is doing anything different. If he changing the way he dresses, exercising more, shaving more, clogone change, mood changes, secret calls, has the sex changed, does he talk or treat you differntly. Things like that are sure signs.
2007-02-01 04:31:06 · answer #6 · answered by Proud Momma of 4mth old Boy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can only know for sure if you catch him. But I have learned that if your have so much evidence and feel he is go with your heart. Try to talk to him about it. Talk, not accuse of judge. Communication is the key;
2007-02-01 04:31:02 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Etheria ♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he comes home late but not just late dont accuse him as soon as he walks through the door...he comes home late with no explanation...acts wierdly around u maybe has a certain odour thats diferant.
2007-02-01 04:30:58 · answer #8 · answered by confused at college 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he avoids you
he comes home late
no sexual intercourse with you
you find phone#s
girls call to you're house
he smells like a woman
you find make up on his shirt
he doesn't come home at all
or is all the time with his buddies
2007-02-01 04:34:34 · answer #9 · answered by moniquita 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you having sex regularly?
If he's not getting any from you, then he is getting it somewhere
That goes for both sexes
Listen to jason x
It worked for me, but brace yourself for the worse.
2007-02-01 04:35:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋