I have been in this relationship and love this person very much. For the past 2 yrs. the sex has become few and far between and I wonder if this happens to many or few couples over time. It seems that there becomes a much greater understanding of one another and that the act of sex is replaced with many other things, but is it still missed, desired, or needed?? I am not going to say which of us I feel are less interested, but would love to know if this does happen and if love just takes a higher ground?
2007-02-01 04:19:00 · 6 answers · asked by selms01 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
For any sexual long term relationship, straight or gay, there are inevitably going to be times when one person isn't as interested physically in the other as before. I know my husband and I just get bored with each other after years. It should be replaced with other forms of interaction though...just avoiding each other is hardly healthy. Don't worry, everything should start up again...after years of being together, a bit of a break can make things interesting again.
2007-02-01 04:24:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt dump sum1 bc they wont perform oral Id dump if they didnt reciprocate oral Guys that think its THE most important thing: genuinely enjoy it r fixated & infatuated aka fetish OR have been manipulated by an outside source to think its crucial part of a relationship We all know no means no Aside from that I feel if a partner is uncomfortable its partially the other partners responsibility to make things comfortable Perhaps her hang up on this is also manipulation from an outside source to believe this act is negative I hate to say this but it hasnt been touched yet personal hygiene may be another reason she isnt up for fallacio Regular soap an water isnt always the cure to unkind genital odors Soaps pH balanced for ladies work great for men too Diet too Try oral post shower at 1st f she feels its unsanitary Sex is 1 of most filthy natural acts of humans U dont deserve to live unfulfilled & ur partner doesnt deserve to be made feel any type of negativity 4 being uncomfortable
2016-05-24 02:03:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, the comfort - the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person - having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words, but pouring them all right out, just as they are, chaff and grain together; certain that a faithful hand will take and sift them, keep what is worth keeping, and then with the breath of kindness blow the rest away. ~Dinah Craik, A Life for a Life, 1859
2007-02-01 04:26:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is very normal. It's just common sense. ;) Maybe you two should talk about it more if it bothers you. You make you own rules in relationships and if this one is worth keeping then start talking (or perhaps f@cking)...
2007-02-01 05:44:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like anything, it will slow down a little bit due to different schedules but my experience has been that after a short period of slowing down comes a short period of hyperdrive. Sex is like, well, sex, it comes and goes in spurts.
2007-02-01 04:25:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it can do - try being more inventive with your sex play
2007-02-01 04:55:18 · answer #6 · answered by Oldie from Bristol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋