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i just found out from my sisters friend that a girl i dated and took to prom has been using me the whole time. i want to get revenge on her. i wanted to know your ideas of what you would do if this happend to you. What would you do? how would you get revenge?Do you have any good revenge ideas because like they say paybacks a *****. if you would help me i will really appreciate it. thanx

2007-02-01 04:07:29 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

37 answers

The best revenge is living well, just move on and be glad you found out sooner rather than later.

2007-02-01 04:13:28 · answer #1 · answered by Fortytipper 5 · 2 0

Oh what a web we weave........first of all, it is just hear say. I mean come on really my sisters friend said blah, blah, blah.........sounds like maybe your sisters friend has a crush on you, and could be stirring up some s***. The more you stir it the more it stinks. I would talk to the girl you have been dating, about what you have heard before you go off on some revenge rampage. She might not have done anything. And you would be hurting her for no reason, not a good thing. Also getting revenge period is ignorance in itself. If she really has been using you as your sisters "friend" says, the best thing is to walk away and never look back, you would be the better person for it.

2007-02-01 04:19:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It sounds as if the sister is the one seeking revenge. If you cannot independently verify what the sister told you, don't believe it. Besides the only people who complain about being used as a sex object have never been one. The Prom? Gads. Your to young to give a damn. Take out a Nice Young Tender Mormon Girl. Get a life. Go out with her best friend. Everybody uses everybody else. What would a girl use a butterball like you for anyway?

2007-02-01 04:16:37 · answer #3 · answered by hoodwink 2 · 0 0

I really do not know how she used you. You kinda left out the details. Egging her house would be childish and only make you look like an idiot. Getting revenge is never that sweet when it comes to a situation like this. You really can't get revenge unless she gives you the chance. If you were to date her again you would have the ability to spend time and figure something out. But why get revenge? Just let her live her pathetic life. She will get used by some guy. What goes around comes around. Its very true.

2007-02-01 04:13:58 · answer #4 · answered by Tim VP 3 · 1 1

Well, In truth to seek revenge makes you just as ignorant and self indulged as her.I think the best you can do to get back at her without coming to the point of being childish is to face her like a real man would.Sometimes the best pay back is to see their face drop when they realize they f--ked up to the point of no return. Go up to her, let her know that you know you were used and then let her know that she is nothing in your eyes and she not only messed up a good thing but any chance of her ever getting any bit of anything from you again no matter what the situation.
If anything by doing this you just may teach her the best lesson of all.That people who are of good loving nature should never be walked on in order to better yourself at their expense.She just might realize this and then have a whole new outlook on how she treats others from here on out.
Good luck!

2007-02-01 04:17:53 · answer #5 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0 0

with revenge can come regret. sometimes it will blow up in your face. leave her alone. trust me on this one. do you think that she is just going to get away with what she did. she will cross someone some day that will make her life a living hell. what comes around goes around. one thi9ng i learned in life no one ever uses u. it is up to you and how far you will allow some one to take advantage of you. if she just used you to take her to the prom then what ever. it is not like you had gone alone. if you are angry because you were into her and she blew you offyou should examine that. if you were giving her things in hope of getting something from her and she took what you gave her with out giving what you expected then that is your problem. don't let a woman use you. a relationship or friendship is a two way street. people in this day and age are very mean and will not think twice about taking advantage of you any way they can. good luck and remember let this be a lesson for you. do not make the same mistake twice.

2007-02-01 04:17:14 · answer #6 · answered by wedjb 6 · 0 0

what do you mean by used? for money? did she cheat on you? whats used. if she kept you around b/c you bought her all kinds of Shhit then its your own fault. some women are gold diggers. well most are but that doesnt mean that they cant be put in their place. *** em. dont give em nothing but your time. a digger will be gone in a flash and good riddens. a true girl will want your time not your money. but revenge, well you could act like nothing is wrong at all. in fact you are still interested in her and get her back. date her for a very short time just to make her think she got you. then take her for a ride miles away from home and get out to see the stars, get gas, whatever. now tell her to take a hike b/c she aint going with you. leave that biatch somewhere dude. just leave her there.

2007-02-01 04:18:15 · answer #7 · answered by maximus 2 · 0 0

Do absolutely nothing, just don't be friends with her anymore or talk to her. If she talks to you just say nod your head yes or no and move on like you have better things to do. The best thing you can do is forget about it and don't even talk about it. People can sense your anger and they win if they cause you to be angry. Move on and find a hot chick or better yourself some how and don't think about her nomatter how hard it is. Maybe even be kinda nice to her if she talks to you it might make her feel guilty or feel stupid, just don't be really good friends with her or ever hook up with her again cause she could use you again. Its all in the mind games you gotta act like your not bothered one bit. Just never give her the opportunity to be cool with you on a friendship level. Or go to the gym and pump iron for a year then she will see you and go wo he's hot and you say no way woman your a fool.

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2016-06-01 01:17:42 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

Here you are, just at the start of your life. And contemplating revenge. The best thing you can learn right now is to LET IT GO. revenge has a way of turning and biting y0ou in the butt.

2007-02-01 04:11:05 · answer #10 · answered by swamp elf 5 · 1 0

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