Me and my boyfriend where trying to have a baby and now that it is here i am not excited about my baby any more. When i firsdt found out about 3 weeks ago i was really happy but now that has all went away. My boyfriend is really happy about it and i just have not been. Is this normal? Will i eventually get over this?
2007-02-01 04:05:51 · 10 answers · asked by bree680u1 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Its a hard time your hormones make your mood change all the time! I went Thur the same thing at times! It gets better once you really start showing and people come up to you and tell you how cute you look and once you start buying things and really getting ready you will get into it more and love it! good luck
so to answer your question yes its common your scared! and you have a right to be!
2007-02-01 04:14:11 · answer #1 · answered by RaylizD 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you say that it's "here" do you mean it's born? Or that you are finally pregnant?
If it's born, then it's normal to feel a little depressed. This is the baby blues or post-partum depression that people talk about. It doesn't usually last long, but there are ways to deal with it if it becomes a problem, usually though talking to someone and through good nutrition believe it or not.
If you are depressed about being pregnant, well it could be that reality has set in and you realize what a big step this is in your life. Sometimes those realizations are not happy moments, it's kind of heavy realizing you're going to be a parent, things aren't going to be the same for you ever again, etc. If this is something that you truly wanted, chances are, the further you get into your pregnancy and the more "real" this baby becomes to you, your spirits will lift. I don't know if this kind of feeling is normal or not- most people I know with kids are older, had a hard time getting pregnant like me and by the time we finally did- we were relieved and happy- but it doesn't mean we didn't worry.
Could be that you are worried that you didn't do the right thing. If you and your bf planned this and are committed to doing this very important thing together you will likely be about to embark on a very happy new chapter in your life.
See if this helps you at all- a fish oil supplement which is concentrated in EPA and DHA (omega-3 fatty acids from fish). This is good for your baby's brain development, perfectly safe for pregnant women and also has the natural ability to balance emotion and mood.
2007-02-01 04:17:07 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet Tooth 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're going through post partum depression. Some women get it mild, moderate, or severe cases. It is normal to feel like that on and off or even for a period of time, but the feeling will subside. Your body goes through a series of changes during pregnancy as well as afterards, and the hormones are still going arye trying to get back to normalcy. So don't feel like you're alone in this. You can talk to y o ur doctor or anyone you know that's had a baby and they've had a slight feeling or even prolonged feelings of not being happy or not wanting to deal with your baby, so it's normal and part of the process girl, you'll get through it. Just keep a good support system around you and you'll be fine.
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2014-09-30 09:44:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think to a degree ts normal because if its baby number one then you are very unsure of how things will be and I remember I even thought about all the things that I would no longer be able to do. It will get better and for me it was just the feel of the baby kicking or the sound of her heart beat that made me realize that I really was ready for this. So don't feel guilty about it just try to remember that your having a beautiful baby and the first time you see him/her your heart will melt and nothing else will matter.
2007-02-01 04:11:37 · answer #5 · answered by jjsgirl0919 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It's normal. Your hormones are going crazy right now! Things will work themselves out. Congratulations!
2007-02-01 04:17:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hon it is just hormones. your emotions are gonna be all over the place. don't worry when it is all said and done you will have that beautiful baby you wanted. good luck.
2007-02-01 04:24:54 · answer #7 · answered by Thumbs down me now 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it probably is just hormones. If it does not improve soon talk to your doctor.
2007-02-01 04:23:44 · answer #8 · answered by gigischildcare 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ive been depressed for all of my second semester of 9th grade it sucked. oh yeah right after you lost something you thought that you loved. or maybe just me
2007-02-01 04:11:38 · answer #9 · answered by Scream Your Secrets 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes you normal its the hormones dont worry
2007-02-01 04:10:00 · answer #10 · answered by lil pit cat 71 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋