Is America becoming a nation of metrosexuals?

Question

Recent studies state that American men have lower testosterone levels. We see the presentation of feminine qualities as being good, while male ones to be bad, with the goal of indoctrination from school age onward. The result has been the vacuous male who has 4 types of hair gel, won't open the hood of his car for fear of getting "messy", and in place of his own beliefs simply copies the "Feeling du jeur".

Do women really want men who act like women?

Answer 1

That's funny, because basically I see macho types as "gay." Not just in the homosexual sense, but in the derogatory sense that a child would use contempt with. To be concerned with hair gel and scruffy hair that much is obviously stupid, so I see where you're coming from. However, the kind of guys that worry about too much metrosexuality, are in fact, concerned with image. Basically, they are the same thing, just coming from a different perspective. Instead of worrying about how other men behave, I think a true man just gets on with life. Also, I think that identifying with gender is a way of limiting oneself. To even say that someone is more "feminine" or "masculine" or even to look at chemical balances regarding testosterone, hinders people rather than helps them.

I think you should stay away from being so obsessed with image, whether it be a "manly" one, a "metrosexual" one, or whatever. And at least be more concerned about your own image than someone else's.

Answer 2

When I first got engaged to the man who is now my husband, ten different people told me that he's GAY, because he never talked 'the way guys talk' about sports, women, etc. In fact, he was raised by WOMEN ... his dad had died, his mom and two much older sisters raised him. No, he doesn't 'act like a woman' even though he would NEVER 'open the hood of a car' ... we don't have a car for 'ecological reasons' but if we did have a car, I'd be the person under the hood. Does that make me a woman who acts like a man? NO. I was married to an excellent auto mechanic in the past, and he made sure I 'knew enough' not to become the victim of 'shady mechanics' ... and I don't think that 'women really want men who act like women' any more than men want women who act like women, or men or giraffes. I think that 'imitating the feeling du jour' is simply 'safer' these days, and what goes on 'behind closed doors' is really far more IMPORTANT in any relationship.

Answer 3

It already is - as you've revealed the Islamic get jointly rule Turkey - and 'they' promote their Islamic beliefs via political rules etc. Turkey's Muslims of diverse faiths....Sunnis (eighty%) and Shia (20%) yet those Islamists have the willingness/decision and the potential to promote in spite of they decide on....via violence or intimidation of the others - as quite a number of those minority middle-east international places were ruled - till the (so-pronounced as) Arab Spring....the position the majorities took administration. Being a minority Muslim team isn't a situation - if the coverage of aggressiveness and intimidation in the route of the peoples is there....maximum individuals competition purely 'caves in'....that being a own survival element for those peoples stuck up with own time table's from the Islamic following.

Answer 4

Not where I live where the mullet rate is about 1 in 20 males. I live in a rural area two hours away from the nearest metro type city.

I like guys who maintain proper hygiene, but I don't want to share beauty products with him.

Answer 5

I think women want men who are confident in themselves. I don't think the ability to fix a car is a major consideration for most women.

There's nothing wrong with caring about appearance, as long as it's in balance with everything else.

Answer 6

Everything we ingest goes into our water and is recycled including the hormones that females take to prevent from getting pregnant and it affects the men after time.

Answer 7

yes its true