2007-02-01 03:16:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is great reason as to why Men can't tell women everything.
2007-02-01 03:17:19 · update #1
wow....can't imagine what it's like to live your married life with the idea that it will end in divorce.....good luck
2007-02-01 03:22:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your marriage is headed for divorce, then NO don't tell any secrets. If it is not and this was just a question, then it depends on the secret. If it is something that she could possibly find out anyway, then you need to tell her. If it is highly unlikely that she will ever find out, then DON'T tell her, especially if the event was far past. If you're not sure if she will find out, then...be....thinking of...a really good excuse...for if she does find out...
2007-02-01 12:00:54 · answer #2 · answered by Cris O 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is more hurtful to a spouse than discovering that their husband is deceiving them. Whether it be about small insignificant things or big life changing things, it's not about the subject, it's about the fact that they lied or kept secrets. I'm speaking from experience. Finding out my husband was keeping secrets from me almost ended our marriage. Marriage is built on trust, honesty, and communication, and if you break that, you are risking losing it all. You shouldn't be thinking about what would happen if you divorce, you should be thinking of every possible way to prevent divorce. Please do the right thing and tell her the truth.
2007-02-01 11:27:50 · answer #3 · answered by jessamess 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
As long as it's no big deal, I would suggest that you keep it to yourself. If it is something that will never effect her, there's no point in opening a can of worms. If it is serious, I would suggest that you tell her soon. She is your wife and if you feel that you can't tell her, then you must have married her for the wrong reasons.
2007-02-01 11:24:43 · answer #4 · answered by ionwheels03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your girl before u get married. Now sit her down and tell her that you want to be truthful and u hope she will understand. Keep no secrets, they always come out to haunt u. Good luck!!
2007-02-01 12:03:04 · answer #5 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it all depends on how bitter the divorce is. Not all women are blabbermouths, but most of us are. So, use your own judgment. But I don't recommend hiding things from her, that will just get you into the doghouse!
2007-02-01 11:21:48 · answer #6 · answered by melody g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you marry someone you don't trust with your inner-most secrets and failings anyway? Nah - why have a trusting, loving, honest relationship when shallow and fake are what's hot?!
2007-02-01 11:31:26 · answer #7 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People should never tell secrets. You never know who told what and if it'll be used against you.
2007-02-01 11:26:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Successful marriage are built on trust. Do you trust her to keep your secrets? Do you trust her to stay with you until death do you part? If not, you need to figure out why you don't trust her and what you can do to build that trust.
2007-02-01 12:17:06 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell...
"Heaven Hath no rage like a love to hatred turned, Nor hell a fury like a woman scorned." William Congreve
2007-02-01 11:23:30 · answer #10 · answered by rla26368 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋