My girl has said some nasty things about my people in the past.
Like one time she came home after being cut off in traffic by this black women and she says to me " I hate black people"
Another example she just told me that she thinks joe Bidens comments could have been taken as a joke and that those comments are something that she would say to her friends as a joke. Not funny to me and I am concerned. Please weigh in....
2007-02-01 03:07:50 · 10 answers · asked by Myself 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Hi again i think you should talk to her and tell her how you feel about her comments. dont be afraid to tell her the truth because if you dont it could get worse. if she continues the racist comments tell her that the relationship will have to end and give her one day to change. if she doesnt then break it off. there is not point having a relationship with a person that you dont share the same views with. good luck!
2007-02-02 23:42:34 · answer #1 · answered by binky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's going out with you she must not be a complete racist. If it's worth dealing with a few bouts of ignorance stick it out. She may learn something and become a different person.
But sounds to me like she just has a dumb sense of humor. Saying she hates black people to her black boyfriend sounds like a weak joke.
2007-02-01 03:29:05 · answer #2 · answered by Rossonero NorCal SFECU 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm a white blonde guy and that i do no longer think of i might date exterior my race because of the fact i'm involved in white females ideally the mild skinned, mild haired and lightweight eyed ones. which may well be translated "i does no longer date a black woman" of course (or the different race for that rely). I do innovations the race while that is approximately my existence or relationship or the place I stick my willy. i do no longer locate it any racist in any respect!
2016-11-02 01:21:48 · answer #3 · answered by roca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did she realize you were black when she said "I hate black people" ? I would suggest dumping her. She may be trying to subtly get rid of you. She's not worth your time.
2007-02-01 03:16:39 · answer #4 · answered by Kharm 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's not hatred, maybe she is jealous of black women and fears that you would leave her for a black woman because of her own insecurities.
2007-02-01 03:24:58 · answer #5 · answered by amschlinger 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She does have the right to her own opinion, if you don't like the kind of person she is then why are you with her. Dump her and find someone who is more like you.
2007-02-01 03:33:11 · answer #6 · answered by Urchin 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ditch the ignorant piece of trash.
2007-02-01 03:10:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
recruit her in the klu klux klan
2007-02-01 03:36:28 · answer #8 · answered by Norman T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
suggest counselling? if you really love her, that is.
if it's not serious, then it's not worth your time - dump her.
2007-02-01 03:13:31 · answer #9 · answered by supposed 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her go home.
2007-02-04 20:15:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋