ok lets just say you and this person who have been on and off for about 3 years are talking and you two both really like eachother, but an ex comes along and says she's pregnant.......should you ignore her story or see if she's really pregnant because she could just be saying that to get him back........or should you just leave him alone completely........but keep in mind that you really really like him and noother person could possibly compare to what you and him have??????
2007-02-01 02:21:31 · 10 answers · asked by iiNnOc3nT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Take one day at a time. Have a conversation with him about when he was last with the ex-girlfriend and was it during one of those "on" periods of your relationship. The other question is whether she is even pregnant and IF the child is even his. If he is denying having been with her, recommend a paternity test as soon as possible to get him off the hook of having to support the child as well as to validate your faith in him.
2007-02-01 02:27:21 · answer #1 · answered by Yo' Mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright, let's start with the woman who enters the scene claiming to be pregnant. Do you know her? Is she capable of such stupidity? And then, what is the reaction of the guy? Shock? Disbelief? Or nonchalance? Do you know him well enough to know his true emotions even when he tries to hide them, or doesn't he hide them?
IF her story is true drop him like a hot potato. how do you know he's not going to leave you high and dry...and pregnant? But that's a whole other story.
As for no other person comparing to what you have together, that may or may not be true. Give yourself a little credit. You might be just as good a catch as you think he is. In the meantime do a little investigation. Don't take her word as truth unless you know more.
2007-02-01 10:29:35 · answer #2 · answered by le coq géant 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters, if you have been on and off again for 3 years, clearly there is a problem and should think about the exit door.
Second, if there is an ex with the possibilities of a baby. Don't walk, but RUN for the nearest exit. YOU DON'T NEED NO DRAMA
especially from his baby's mama.
There are plenty of guys out there. Life is short so don't get attached to something that was unstable to begin with and has the highest possibilities to give you too much grief.
2007-02-01 10:28:21 · answer #3 · answered by zumi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out if she really is. She could really be or she could be just trying to get him back but you need to find out for sure and if she is. He should get a blood test to see if he's the father. if you've been going with him on and off for 3 years then you should move on and find someone else because there's something wrong there and if she is pregant with his baby you don't need to deal with her and her drama as well.
2007-02-01 10:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
compare to what you have??? if this dude is cheating on you, what do you have?
You need to sit down with him and ask him what is going on, you two have been together for 3 years and another woman is pregnant it does not take 3 or more years to have sex, get pregnant etc....so you really need to wake up and smell the coffee, if he is cheating on you then yes you do need to leave him regardless of what you two so called have.....if you all have so much in common and he cheated on you then he does not value what he has with you..... please do not be naive to what is right under your nose... good luck!
2007-02-01 10:35:23 · answer #5 · answered by Mye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See if she's really pregnant or not, cause she could be trying to get him back. Also, if she is he the father or not? Good Luck!
2007-02-01 10:26:24 · answer #6 · answered by Twinkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELP HIM OUT!!!! Right now he is stressed, most likely, and needs someone with him. This is your perfect chance. if you like him, why not take a chance. See how things go, and if the ex is really prego.
2007-02-01 10:26:57 · answer #7 · answered by Linka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with him if you really like him. I remember this old line being used in school many moons ago. n
2007-02-01 10:27:14 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure she's pregnant--have him get a paternity test--and if she's not--then you have your answer--if she is then you have your work cut out for you.
2007-02-01 10:28:09 · answer #9 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what ever it is. you need to know the real truth. if you want to go any further with this guy, you need to clear the air. and not from he says, she says.
2007-02-01 10:26:48 · answer #10 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋