I argued with my girlfriend this morning and made her upset and cried. i even told her she can call me if she wants and if she doesn't that is fine. she had classes this morning and she was crying. i feel like a jerk now. i told her i'm sorry for making her upset and i will not do that again. what can i do to prove to her that i'm really sorry. Can anyone give me and idea, should i buy flowers, cards chocolate any ideas
Please i need help, i really love her
2007-02-01 02:13:41 · 5 answers · asked by killuminati 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I personally don't think flowers and chocolate are appropriate when guys act like jerks. It makes us feel that our forgiveness can be bought. Those items are much more appreciated when u buy them "just because" The best thing to do is talk to her. She is not going to forgive u right away, but she will think about your words and come around as the day goes on. If she has a cell phone that u could leave a message on, that would be great. Don't just tell her u are sorry, tell her how u feel about her and your relationship. Tell her u made a huge mistake and u were a real jerk, how she is the only one for u and how much u love her and never want to lose her. Forget materialistic things right now and just speak from your heart and let her think about it for abit. Women don't just like to hear u are sorry, they like to hear why u are sorry, so we know that u understand what u are apologizing for. Good luck and u will see by the end of the day she will be loving u again.
2007-02-01 02:25:59 · answer #1 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
although buying her gifts may seem like a good solution, it doesn't always work as well as a good hug, kiss and snuggle if you will to let her really know how badly you feel. You should also try to work out the issue now that you are both hurt by the outcome...and calmed down to a point. Nothing really ever gets solved in anger...hope this helps and she forgives you :)
2007-02-01 02:20:21 · answer #2 · answered by CO#1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are human, and make mistakes, happens to the best of us. Now you just have to be diligent and sincere with this. Don't over do it though, just let her know that you aren't perfect and that you will be better about things in the future, if she loves you, then she will forgive.
2007-02-01 02:41:08 · answer #3 · answered by Light Bringer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you didn't call her names and disrespect her. If you didn't sit her down and have a heart to heart. tell her what made you upset about the situation. Try not to do it again. I think if she's still crying in school is bcause you must've hurt her feelings really bad. time to kiss *** buddy!!!
2007-02-01 02:21:24 · answer #4 · answered by blackmamba81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a dozzen red roses long stim
2007-02-01 02:17:56 · answer #5 · answered by Cowgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋