2007-02-01 02:12:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I will select with my parents choice.
2007-02-02 00:47:23 · answer #1 · answered by --> ( Charles ) <-- 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't really select a husband or wife. It just automatically falls into place. The relationship grows and before you know it you get married with them and that's how it is.
2007-02-01 02:22:04 · answer #2 · answered by bluemist 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
(1) Qualifies and prepared to be a parent
(2) Responsible and NOT selfish or self-focused
------ the boys with expensive cars should be passed over here
------ the girls with boob jobs should get passed over here
(3) Physical Attraction (chemistry)
(4) Someone that is absolutly honest and open about their past. (
The first two are qualifiers, if you are selfish and irrsponsible you never get the time of day (because you are wasting time). Once the first two are met you have to get someone that turns you on. Otherwise you be banging around on them.
The last one is just a flat out integrety check. If they can't handle or lie about their past they are selfish immature and self centered.
2007-02-01 02:26:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did I know that my now wife was the one?
It took four years. We dated for four years - with me playing the field the entire time - to figure it out.
So, how did I know. One day in a moment of clarity I have never since duplicated I realized something. That every girl I dated or slept with was inevitably compared to her. And they all came up lacking. Always, she was the standard.
That's when I knew I would never find another woman 'better' than her.
So I married her.
2007-02-01 02:25:22 · answer #4 · answered by jw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were looking for a mate, there would be a few things i would look at, their character, morals, past, how they handled stress, if they had children did they take care of them? are they controlling, or abusive? because marriage won't change that. is their work ethic good? or are they always quitting jobs for ridiculous reasons. do they do drugs? if so u don't want them. look at their family, are they nice people or not? as we do marry his family too. does he have a nasty ex, or children from a past relationship that are disrespecting u? that won't change either. is he selfish, or giving? is he a player? as he will continue to be that. is he compassionate, understanding, not quick to anger? does he have a strong belief in god? does he like his mom? does he run away from problems or does he deal with them. does he have integrity, keep his promises? does he put your needs first?
2007-02-01 02:25:24 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did not select him we chose to love and marry each other... It was a choice and we Prayed about it and made sure that each other was God's will for our lives....
2007-02-01 02:52:29 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes people select's the wrong one's and wind up being abused and cheated on its best to let god give you a spouse and best place is at church
2007-02-01 02:16:49 · answer #7 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should be someone who accepts you for what you are and adjusts well to changes. Everyone changes throughout life and you have to be able to adapt and accept.
2007-02-01 02:20:55 · answer #8 · answered by browneyedgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will probably use the "Eenie Meenie Miney Mo" method...
2007-02-01 02:15:45 · answer #9 · answered by Harry Taco 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drawing high card !!
2007-02-01 02:15:31 · answer #10 · answered by MR.Truth !! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋