would you talk things through or would you show them the high road?
2007-02-01 02:04:08 · 35 answers · asked by honey xx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Definitely, show them the high road! Once trust has been broken, you can't get it back!
2007-02-01 02:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by grandm 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I caught mine cheating while I was living with him in his Flat. I booked a removal/storage company, moved out lock, stock and barrel, without telling him, taking everything I'd paid for (which incidentally left him with virtually nothing, only his personal belongings), put the stuff in storage until my house (rented to others at the time) was vacant, then moved home. Best thing I ever did. Sod the 'talking it through' bit, he cheated and there was no going back, no matter how much I loved him
2007-02-01 05:44:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby girl I ve been there done that.I caught my guy in our bed in our home getting it on,but that is not all he was screwin my 2nd cousin and act as if he didn't care neither did she. So I did the next best thing I waited a week and when his behind went to work at 7:00pm the moving van was pullin in at7:02pm.I packed up every thing and left the moving van in front of his job and left the key with the security guard up front.Left his behind a message on his office phone and cell .I had already changed the locks at the house and never looked back.Thank god I don't have children from him.so in other words tell him TO GET THA STEPPIN you don't need all that drama.
2007-02-01 02:17:54 · answer #3 · answered by AMBRASIA C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll talk to him first because for sure I will want to know what made him do it. I will give him some time to think things through and then I will give him an ultimatum - it's either me or her, there is no way he can keep us both. After that it's up to him. If he choses me, I'll put one condition - that the thing never happens again. If it does, I'll let him go. It's sometimes worthy to give a second chance, but not third, forth and so on.
At least that's what I think is the right thing to do. But if that really happens, I don't know - I may act quite differently from what I wrote just now. :-)
2007-02-01 02:15:29 · answer #4 · answered by petyado 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd stab him and her.
Then enjoy a cosy few years in Englands jails whilst relishing the opportunities provided inside for free education.
Then when I get out i'd make the most of my new found skills and apply to some do-good government sceme for a grant to set up my own business.
2007-02-01 02:10:03 · answer #5 · answered by some girl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Was it like in your house? In YOUR bed? or did you just accidentally discover they'd had a tryst? Who was it with? your best mate? Your boss? Their boss? An old flame? All these factors matter. But in the end, it's VERY hard to get over an infidelity.
??? What kind of moron would thumbs down all the honest answers? Well, I thumbs'd up all the ones that had been thumbs'd down - so now they're even again.
2007-02-01 02:09:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would show him the high road. If he does it once he will do it again.
2007-02-01 02:17:46 · answer #7 · answered by Wildwagon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on you, not him. If you really want to stay with them then make him suffer for a while and beg your forgiveness but if your not sure I would say get rid of them. They obviosly don't care for you that much to go and cheat. You can do better.
Hope you make the right decision!
2007-02-01 02:18:28 · answer #8 · answered by Katie M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would be very very angry - but would not see that as a cause for breaking up a marriage - especially when there are children involved. I would rather treat the symptom - as there is always a reason for everything.
2007-02-01 02:10:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well when I caught my old boyfriend doing it I lobbed a chair into the pool ontop of him and his little fancy piece - after he came begging back to me - i spoke to him - found out why he did it and decided to give him another go - we lasted about 2 years after that but I could never trust him and it played alot on my mind. It takes alot to forgive them for it - but you NEVER forget it.
xx
2007-02-01 03:10:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋