not only do he reject me by not hugging making love to me touching me .but we are ministers and when we in front of other leaders he act like we are so together and i am like do they not see the truth or they are just blind and cant see anything or just want say a word it hurts so much when you love someone and they dont love you back and you do your very best and you paying all the bills and buying all the food and making sure th ehome is up to part even with my kids he hate to take the trash out you have really keep talking about it before it get taking out we are about to make a move to a different city and i dont want to go with this same stuff he dealing out .
2007-02-01 02:02:59 · 8 answers · asked by BROKEN AND BEAUTFUL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
try telling your husband how you feel
2007-02-01 02:06:58 · answer #1 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him. He should be aleast taking some efforts on the home front. Whether or not he is happy/affectionate to you - He should still do his part around the house and with the children as long as you two are "together".
I can feel your frustration as I have been there (still kinda there) but I come out and said family comes first and foremost and work should take a back burner when yo dont see your family for a great lenght of time.
Good luck
2007-02-01 02:29:56 · answer #2 · answered by Confussedhere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to go to marriage counseling with your husband and be honest and open with your husband and tell him how any why you feel... He needs to stop the act in front of other people. Why does he not love you back? What kind of ministry are you in and what kind of church if i may ask? Have you ever read the book the Power of a Praying Woman???? Please read it ... You can pick up up at Walmart or Target or any place like that.... Also go to http://www.marriagetoday.org and email them and ask them this question there and see what they have to say. I wish you the bst... Maybe you should talk to another persons wife like maybe a pastors wife about this and have them encourage and pray with you... I am here if you need to talk.
2007-02-01 02:46:54 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
while you're no longer happy then no of direction you shouldnt stay. And congrats on your weight-loss i be attentive to how confusing that is. you would be a replaced guy or woman very rapidly and dont ever enable anybody step throughout you ever returned. Be good and shop your head up,,you're able to do something you placed your innovations to. yet i think of in case you arent happy then you particularly could get out. you will see as quickly as you're on your individual how much less stressful your existence would be. and you're able to truly have some piece and quiet. Im particular being unhappy contributed to 3 of them illnessess. good success and congrats.
2016-11-02 01:17:48 · answer #4 · answered by roca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweetie! I'm so sorry you have to go through this! Men!!!!
Ok, first off, offer it all up to God, lay it at His feet. He'll take care of it. Just pray for him to work in your husband's heart.
Now, I highly recommend a Marriage Enrichment seminar, especially if you can find one with Bunny Wilson. She's awesome. http://www.frankandbunny.com/bunny.htm Joe Beam is also supposed to be good. http://www.joebeam.com/seminars.html
Try to encourage some Christian Marriage counseling as well. It's a good thing, a great marriage builder!
Good luck!
2007-02-01 02:16:27 · answer #5 · answered by turnerzgirl101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're ministers? This is a tough one. I'm sure that a divorce is against your religion so try a trial seperation. Maybe he needs to miss you to realize that he does love you. I feel bad for you. My husband always tells me that he loves me but never shows me. That is a mind game in its self.
2007-02-01 02:08:25 · answer #6 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband refuses to talk, and resolve the issues, then you need to leave him! Ministers or not, you're not in a marriage in the true sense, because marriage is a partnership!
2007-02-01 02:28:32 · answer #7 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are miniters than you two should know better
stop being a hiprocrite (saying it the nicest way) meaning that you need to take care of yourself before you can truly take care of your ministry or floks
Goodluck
& Good bless
2007-02-01 02:22:17 · answer #8 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋