I have a guy who has always cared about me like a real friend and made me feel so special, i almost fell in love with him because of the way he really made me feel despite the fact that he wasn't really cute, i didn't care but he had a girlfriend.He was so caring and meant a world to me but he doesn't wanna talk to me anymore claiming that he hates me. I have tried to ask him why he feels like that about me all of a sudden but he is still quiet. its been two weeks now since we last talked to each other. It really hurts me when i think about our friendship and how he is behaving towards me right now. I dont really think i have done anything wrong to deserve his hatred but he makes me feel like i have hurt him. Do you really think this guy was real?
2007-02-01 01:31:51 · 6 answers · asked by didi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It means his girlfriend told him to not talk to you. I am sorry but its true. It happened to me often. All you have to move on and let him go. If he just happen talk to you and ask you whats going on, tell him the truth how you felt.
2007-02-01 01:36:10 · answer #1 · answered by MissGal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It has happened to me a couple of times. My boyfriend or husband at the time would ask me to stay away from my friends and spend more time with him. So, I would. I wouldn't never say that I hated them though. But everyone is different. The only thing you can really do is just live your life and one day your friend might call you and as a friend you will either be there or not. I had found that my girl friends were there when I called but my male friends had just moved on all together...
2007-02-01 09:44:46 · answer #2 · answered by your1starr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar thing happen to me many years ago, and looking back at it, I strongly suspect that the person concerned was the victim of some nastiness spread from another friend of mine who was jealous.
It's probably worth persisting, to try to find out what it's all about, but when I look back I think that the friend I lost should have had more trust in me anyway, and that the loss wasn't really as bad as it seemed at the time.
2007-02-01 09:37:09 · answer #3 · answered by langdonrjones 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he was real, but I think he needs some freedom or to accomplish some other task. I think if you leave him alone but give him note saying you are sorry for whatever he thinks you did and that you cherished your friendship, he will come around.
2007-02-01 09:36:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not you it's his girlfriend. She see your friendship with her man as a threat.
2007-02-01 09:36:25 · answer #5 · answered by Kdog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it comes to emotions, the word 'fair' doesn't apply.
2007-02-01 09:34:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋