well i asked the question what do u think if ur boyfriend an ur bestfriend are planning on getting a place 2gether ... well ... here it goes how would u feel if ur boyfriend broke up wit u for no reason ... an says that u were cheatin .. but u werent ... he told all his friends an now they are talking crap about u ... then a few days later ur bestfreind sends u a note saying IM DATING UR EX ! an she dont even like him in the 1st place. an now she is worried that she is gonna loose a friendship .... she wants me 2 forgive her .....
would u ?
2007-02-01 01:26:44 · 23 answers · asked by Dez DrOp DeAd 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
In the first place darling she is not your friend and he is not the man for you either. A real friend in her position would not do that a real friend would come up to you and say your man is looking me meaning he want's her. Andthen being the good friends that both of you are or was you would break it off cause he ain't a man he's a boy and that girl she has no respect for you and herself because he was with you first and he left you to be with her thats not good don't deal with none of them forgive her but dont be her friend like what you was to her before. Just forget them both girl love yourself first girl thats what important. Can you imagine all this time when you are disscussing thing to her about you and him and she knows exactly whats going on i feel like i would slap that *****. Take care of yourself causeshe is not your friend and he is not a man a real man would not do that takecare
2007-02-01 01:42:44 · answer #1 · answered by kitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt forgive her
how can you trust her again? obviously those two had something going on before they got together right? so she should have told you then..its not like they fell for each other overnight...it had to take some time...so where was her concern for you then?
if she truly wanted to salvage a friendship, she should have told you earlier
and even now, she sends you a NOTE? of all ways to break the news..she sends you a note
now i dont know how close you guys are..and how many years of friendships you guys have...but respect and trust is a big thing..and i think she lacks both
2007-02-01 09:34:23 · answer #2 · answered by candycane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, how much of a friend could she really be? She went behind your back and dated your ex??!!! I am thinking you don't need friends like that anyway. Second it sounds like they had something going on and kept you in the dark. I would be done with the both of them. Put the value in yourself, know that you are a good person, with a beautiful heart--you are worth better than deception. Pull yourself up by your boot straps and get on with out the both of them!!
2007-02-01 09:32:34 · answer #3 · answered by Austins Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever happened to the rule that you do not date friend ex's?
I'm sorry for your situation, but honestly this type of drama is going on every where theses days. I say cut your loses your better off with both of them. True friends wouldn't have treated you this way,for fear of it happen to them later on. Just wait and see. and tell yourself this "How you meet your man is how you lose your man." They will get theirs too. So move on. You find not just a better man better a better gal pal I hope. Good Luck.
2007-02-01 09:42:46 · answer #4 · answered by neferititti72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course i would not forgive her.
if she cared anything about your friendship she should have ran it with you before she started dating your EX.
I'm sorry that you've lost a boyfriend and a best friend in the same day, but life is full of disappointments, try to get over it although i perfectly know that it's easier said than done...
good luck.
2007-02-01 09:52:02 · answer #5 · answered by Jumana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I would have to take a break from all of those jerks. You should take time to clear ur mind, think about things, then if you feel you could still be her friend, go for it.
I probably wouldn't be her friend anymore.
2007-02-01 09:30:55 · answer #6 · answered by Mujer Bonita 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your ex was just making excuses to dump you and your g/f probably was the one that told him you were cheating so she could have him get rid of both of them cause you can do better and don't take your ex back when he dumps your ex friend.. Move on you can do better.
2007-02-01 09:31:55 · answer #7 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spread rumours about him being a he-whore....forgive her and get her back in the fold if he made it all up, otherwise give her the cold-shoulder for some time.
2007-02-01 09:32:21 · answer #8 · answered by In-Sync 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he was the one who wanted to cause trouble, not your friend. Try to forgive her for the friendship.
2007-02-01 09:31:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I would not forgive her or the b.f. Sounds to me she had something to do with your break-up. Do not trust either one of them. Go on with your life and find yourself someone who will respect you. Good Luck!
2007-02-01 09:32:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋