I want to give my best to her & satisfied her completely but how can i know that she is got climexed & doesn't want more......I can't ask her directly abt it in first time coz it would be very awkward.
2007-02-01 01:19:57 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
intercourse will probably not make her climax,you will have to stimulate the clitoris prior to or during intercourse,the best thing to do is learn together what you both enjoy!you sound young ,make sure you are BOTH ready for this and use a condom and a lubricant because the 1st time will be uncomfortable for her,if shes not ready please wait ,you can still experiment with other ways to climax
2007-02-01 01:28:35 · answer #1 · answered by jewel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here is a brief overview of what happens during a female orgasm:
Stimulation of clitoris
Tension build-up is caused within pelvis
Tension is finally released and orgasm is experienced
Series of involuntary (yet pleasurable) muscle contractions sweep through body
Contractions are felt in the vagina, uterus, and/or rectum
Unlike with the male orgasm, women have the ability to feel many different types of climaxes. These climaxes are dependent on the types of stimuli used, and whether the orgasm is clitoral or vaginal.
2007-02-01 05:57:06 · answer #2 · answered by Komsat/sad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes alot of women do not climex but its also the first time for the both of yall so just have fun and expeiment together and find out as you go along what makes her happy. Also you have to remember that the first time will hurt her she will even bleed and after a couple of times she will be fine.Therfore just take your time and be gentle and loving.
2007-02-01 01:29:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, dont even worry about that side of things just yet. It takes a few times to really know how to reach those targets!! Im sure that the most important thing to her at the moment is just being close to you and sharing this intimate moment with YOU. She is going to be just as nervous as you are. Just take your time and treat it as the tender and close thing that it is. All this 'climax' stuff wont even matter on your first time - trust me. Just enjoy it together and relax.
2007-02-01 01:27:29 · answer #4 · answered by Tia Bannana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
regularly (a minimum of in my experience and what i've got typical from my female friends) the 1st time you have intercourse will many times harm to a pair degree. Its no longer only the physique reacting to the recent experience, however the actual breaking of the hymen. I advise being affected person, comprehend that whether that's hurting her, end. discover different approaches to particular your love if she is in soreness. yet once you the two want to objective it, bypass sluggish, use protection and lube if mandatory. for my area if that's a continuing ingredient, possibly you're able to ask her what could make it greater valuable for her, or what different issues could she want to do to replace. .
2016-11-23 19:59:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you should know that a first few times of sexual intercourse for girls would be very hurt, and it's hard to reach the Orgasm. However, foreplay could increase sexual arousal and lead easily to orgasm.
You can observe your gf getting there when her vagina contracts repeatedly-rhythmically. She might have other involuntary actions like muscle spasm, vocalization, jaw-drop, euphoric sensation ~ smiling, laughing...
In my opinion, communicating your feeling results in greater satisfaction for both of you. It would be wonderful to experiment together and find different ways of giving each other pleasure.
But remember to play SAFE !!!
Good Luck
2007-02-01 03:03:17 · answer #6 · answered by GiGi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK don't be surprised if she dose not have the big o most girls don't the first time but if she does holy hell you will know trust me but if yo are concerned let her be on top then she can control everything speed , depth and when she wants to stop encourage her to be vocal she might surprise you I'm so loud my hubby says i will wake our neighbors "two streets away" heheheheh
2007-02-01 01:28:20 · answer #7 · answered by 1401 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time for a girl usually isn't all that good from what i've heard and experienced myself. Try making it the best ever the 2nd or 3rd time.
2007-02-01 19:50:34 · answer #8 · answered by Ace of Blackness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know the first time is akward but if you cannot be perfectly honest with eachother and discuss these thing and be comfortable about it then you probably shouldn't do it. do it because you love eachother and are totally comfotable with it. not because you are infatuated with eachother and the voice in your pants is egging you on.
i made that mistake and i regret it. and i know know how good sex can be when a couple is truly ready for it. and how bad and akward it can be if you are not. so use your brain.
2007-02-01 03:23:28 · answer #9 · answered by 1 Hott Mami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know any girl that has climaxed the first time. After the guy climaxes it's usually over with. I will tell you this. It will hurt her and there will probably be a little bleeding. So be very gentle and patient with her.
2007-02-01 01:26:21 · answer #10 · answered by Lynne 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋