to be serious about it i am feeling like i dont knwo what to do in this marriage i know that yoru husband should love on you and you back to him but it seems as this is a one way street and i am getting so tired of trying to make things work i need a husband not a room mate my annv is tommorow and he will not even coem close to me for notting at all not even a kiss yes i read the last page saying he may have health problems ,if that was it i wish he would talk to me i am still young and i need to know so i can surport him and help him get to doctors and we can talk it out i am trying to stay faithful cause i love him but all the rejection is really doin something to me i feel a difference in me i am also feeling that numbness in my self towards him i just dont knwo any more we both are young in our 30"s and we walk around the house like old people and i know some old folks that love to kiss and hug and do things together.we just eat and sleep and talk and watch t.v what a life.
2007-02-01 01:08:15 · 8 answers · asked by BROKEN AND BEAUTFUL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That's not a a life at all... Some times relationships get stuck in ruts and it is communication that will get you out. If you are thinking about straying in your relationship than you need to get out. I would try and talk to him and if he ignores you or blows you off well than you know what you need to do in your heart. My Mother always had a saying... I would rather be alone and lonely, rather than be with someone and be lonely. You have to follow your heart. Is he willing to go to the Doctor?? He sounds like a bump on a log. Rejection hurts in many ways, don't let him tear you apart tho. Stay strong and do what is best for you, and don't let anyone tell you different. Good Luck!!
2007-02-01 01:19:00 · answer #1 · answered by Niecy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all he is being selfish if you have addressed these feeling s to him. In marriage it is give and take and he is not giving much at this time. I know you love him and he is propably a real great guy.........but some things just do not work out. We sometimes have to cut our losses and move on. Do it before you go out and have an affair and then have the guilt of that crashing down on top of you as well, I know how it must hurt you and if I can pick that up in your question I cannot figure out how he could not pick that up at home. Good Luck!
2007-02-01 01:16:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok he might have a problem
since you say that you talk why don't you bring the subject up
ask him if he is gay
ask him why did he married you
but also ask yourself why how was sex before the marriage
the only advise I can give you is Talk Talk
Good luck
2007-02-01 02:12:22 · answer #3 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's gonna be hard for me to answer this respectfully, but I'm gonna do my best.
Be mindful of how you treat him.
Try the book "Love and Respect" by Dr. Eggers.
It's taught me alot about how my actions will ALWAYS dictate the marriage.
2007-02-01 01:42:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok Beautiful, what is your question here?
Well it sounds like you have your course of action planned...you need to make your hubby go with you to counseling or you need to end the marriage. You deserve to be cherished and cared for...everyone does. If he doesnt take care of you, then you are going to cheat. You deserve love and warmth and if he doesnt give that to you...then you need to get out.
2007-02-01 01:16:53 · answer #5 · answered by jim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You clearly need to go to marriage counseling.If you are considering cheating then maybe it would be fair that you need to atleast seperate.Cheating is so wrong and you can never take it back....
2007-02-01 01:19:54 · answer #6 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go love do not think enjoy your life.Give love and take love is key of best life
2007-02-01 01:13:42 · answer #7 · answered by anubhav_55 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your husband about your feelings; if he doesn't respond, then maybe it's time for you to move on.
2007-02-01 01:19:13 · answer #8 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋