My fiancee and I went to our friend's house last night and we were all pretty drunk. My fiancee and our friend got in a fight because our friend grabbed me by me collar to get me to listen to him even though I already heard him and he didn't give me a chance to say anything. When he grabbed me my fiancee launched at him and they started fighting. I appreciate my fiancee sticking up for me, but those two have been friends for about 5 years. I don't want them to fight. When we were leaving they told each other it was all good and they shook hands, but my fiancee is really mad at our friend still. I kinda am too, but when he gets drunk he does stupid things and I can understand that. Things just got blown out of proportion. When we got home I called our friend and told him we were straight but he might want to talk to my fiancee about all of this. I tried calling our friend this morning but I couldn't get a hold of him. Is there anything I can do to keep them good friends?
2007-02-01 00:45:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I went to the bathroom and I accidently closed the door a little too loud and he though I was disrespecting his house and I really didn't mean to. I tried to tell him that but he grabbed me before I could. He gets really defensive when he is drunk like he was last night. I don't know. This is all really stupid. I can't believe he acted that way and put his hands on me. We were tight. He did apologize but my fiancee aint accepting it.
2007-02-01 00:55:15 · update #1
your fiancee did the right thing. his friends should treat you with respect drunk or not. before things get really out of control. they need to know where they stand as you already know where you stand!! let things cool down for a bit your fiancee just needs some time they'll be mates again. dont go feeling like it was your fault!! or that you should fix the problem his mate crossed the line. for now let things cool down.
2007-02-01 00:53:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi.
men have a special kind of bone when it comes to there relationships they have to go through it on there own terms and some times it takes a while. if you try to help the situation you can make it worse so just let sleeping dog lie and give them the time to work it out, and next time remind your boyfriend to not drink so much, and don't forget about the friend. let them know what happens when they get smashed.
2007-02-01 09:00:25 · answer #2 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to get rid of that friend.
Whoever he is - does not need to touch you.
I dont blame your fiance.
That friend if eh wants to keep your fiance as a friend needs to apologize to both of you, and the ball is in his court, to fix this.
Not yours or your fiances, what did you guys do so wrong?
Better off not being friends with that jerk.
Friends come and go.
2007-02-01 08:49:18 · answer #3 · answered by Mia l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go, you have stumbled into "Man Territory" getting involved will only complicate things, they have already settled it, and if they havn't they will all on their own, getting involved will only hurt your friendship and your potential marriage. I understand the need to be in there, but don't... there is nothing you can do
2007-02-01 08:56:14 · answer #4 · answered by Caramon S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is nothing u can do now. The problem is between them and they have to solve it on their own. Mainly they have to want to solve it. Just let it go and time will show.
2007-02-01 08:51:33 · answer #5 · answered by pavlinka32 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And the reason you want your fiancée to maintain a friendship with a stupid belligerent sloppy drunk is . . . ?
2007-02-01 09:20:22 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Right 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never try to solve things between two fiends u will get blown. let things work out themselves.
2007-02-01 08:49:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Honey.."
"Yes what."
"I would like to have some fun."
"Like what."
"Getting putty in yo hands."
"Cover the blanket. We're in for happy hours."
-smooch-
2007-02-01 08:48:09 · answer #8 · answered by basshunter_poka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's their problem, not yours so it's best to stay out of it.
2007-02-01 08:49:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋