ppl i have a problem with trusting people as i had a bad experience with it in school wid a friend n now i am just not able to trust ppl i meet n have very less friends plzzzzz help me? what should i do??? im 17 yrs old...
2007-02-01 00:32:43 · 6 answers · asked by bluedragon 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Consider dat bad exp as a gud one coz........now u can able to analyse wht hpnd n even u could change wht will happen
too much friendship suspects sin..........
make frndship wid da one who suits ur personality...i mean mental personality........
Ur juss 17yrs old............theres a lot of time in ur life to make friends......no need to worry now
ur frnds shows how gud u r
so be selective
no need to get close rite frm da first days of frndship
So be wise..........n analyse urself dat to whom u r makin frndship
Tc
Bye........
HE-HN
2007-02-01 01:07:47 · answer #1 · answered by comely_alone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are similiar but not the same.
When looking for new friends trust your instincts. Look for people with good values. Wait awhile before opening your life completely to people you've only known a short time.
Trust is usually earned when you feel like someone is trying to protect you, not hurt you. Look for people who demonstrate this by standing up for you. People who try to protect you. People who try to protect you even from yourself, if necessary.
Friends you don't want typically gossip too much, have a reputation as not being trustworthy, are impulsive, etc... Use your head to guide your heart and wait until you've known someone awhile.
2007-02-01 08:50:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually birds of the same feather flock together...
will people trust you at your present state... if not then you have the same problem as your friend who betrayed you...
What you need to do is to have a better outlook in life...
To be trusted you need to be trustworthy...
To trust other people is normal... but pick who you trust...
if you trust a person with your love life because they have been through it... that is good.
if you trust people about money because they know how to save and use their money wisely... that is good.
if you trust people about your personal fears because they have similar fears like you... that is okay.
if you trust people about your things, because they know how to take care of it... that is wonderful.
if you trust people about being there because they are always present... that is even wonderful...
now, if you find a friend who has those things... that is very good news!!!
But, remember... you need to be like this... trustworthy... just star t with yourself... everyone will be coming toward you and you don't need to look for them... friends will flock around you for they have found a honey of trust... they will just feel you there... they will just see you there. they want to be friends with you... because you are a trustworthy person.
2007-02-01 09:04:37 · answer #3 · answered by DEADPOOL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
without knowing exactly what happened to you this bad experience I can't say much, but try to talk with the person that hurt you so bad, you have to get the feelings and emotions out of your head, or you won't be able to trust again.
2007-02-01 13:46:55 · answer #4 · answered by lilred25smc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Stop Stop !!! It is natural that someone have betrayed u, and thats y u r not believing anyone in this world.
But u know !!! U r only viewing the small part of the screen.... Life is much larger than u think
2007-02-01 08:47:36 · answer #5 · answered by dancingdoll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well even i got these experiences the only thing u got to do is make frnds and try to know them for sometime and then trust them .just try to make more frnd and see whose more comfortable with u and and u'll know when time comes
2007-02-01 08:51:47 · answer #6 · answered by RAKSHITH M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋