Iam 24 & my GIRLfriend is 23... we've been together 2 yrs & are very much in love. It's just the sex that is causing problems. I gets so frustrated at MYself, because I wants to have sex, just sometimes "it" doesn't work. I haVE problems getting aroused often, & when we do have sex it's over in a 24minute . and she doesn't cumming .We are open with each other & have talked about it, . & we both want a great sexual relationship together. I am becoming frustrated myself because nothing is working, but I love him so I would never cheat. At least we are very close so we can talk about the situation, but I M really embarrassed and mad at MYself over this. Even when I try to comfort her... Anyways I would really appreciate any help that anyone could offer! Thanks a lot!!
2007-01-31 23:59:53 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Sounds as if your becoming bored with the whole sex thing. They say if you try to put more "umph" into it by game playing, taking different roles, dress up etc. it might help. So change your surroundings. Do it in the car, at motels, places a way from home and your bedroom. You might want to spend more time with fore-play in order to get her more excited and have an orgasm. Have you tried different positions and oral, mutual masturbation, anal etc.? Anything to try to make the act more interesting and less boring? Some men find watching porn before helps.
2007-02-01 00:40:05 · answer #1 · answered by Dale 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋