this may sound crude sorr but me and my partner when we have sex he wants me on the top and i can not do it and he knows that so could any one give my any help on this so i can get on top of him so he is not on top all the tim e
2007-01-31 23:57:20 · 20 answers · asked by mrs apps 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you meanyou can't do the actions properly try this (you can do it on your own to start with) neal on the bed and move up and down - keep going until you get a rythm then try going backwards and forwards so that as you go back your up and when you are forward your low but only move forward and backward with your hips/pelvis. When you do this with him between your legs you can "grind" into his groin area for deep penitration.
Good Luck -CX
2007-02-02 03:17:34 · answer #1 · answered by Soul Reason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this all depends on the reason you cant get on top.
if its 1 that you physcially havent got the stamina to do it i find that him sitting on a chair with you on top works wonders you just have to get a good rythm going.
if its 2 you dont like him looking at you then either try it in the dark or try doggy. (not literally up the bum obviously) but its a great position and he wont be on top all the time.
there are loads and loads and loads of positions you's could do that would mean him not being on top all the time it just takes pracitce.
2007-02-01 00:32:54 · answer #2 · answered by dubgirl26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why r u facing trouble to be on top of him? Is his size or hardness matters? U may opt for a sitting position on him (while he is lying face upwards) like the way one rides a wooden horse during childhood.
2007-02-01 00:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by Babul D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't clear why you can't be on top , but there our many other positions you can try out that will not require him to be on top either.
If you don't know any then find books about it or talk to friends.
There's the spoon position, doggy style, on his lap etc..
Good Luck
2007-02-01 00:03:10 · answer #4 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try doing it on a chair, one with a solid back and no arms. The trick is to get a rhythm going so maybe even try some music.
2007-02-01 00:00:36 · answer #5 · answered by Hamza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be the same. I found that doing it in the dark helped, I did this until I felt comfortable doing it, then I switched the lights on.
2007-02-01 00:01:02 · answer #6 · answered by chelle0980 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you get on top?
He probably gets tired of doing all the work all the time.
2007-02-01 00:00:57 · answer #7 · answered by Flyah64 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Confused - you can't get on top so how can you get on top ? Do it on the side - spoons with him behind you
2007-02-01 00:00:41 · answer #8 · answered by chillipope 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you sound a wee bit confused here, he wants you on top and you want to go on top, so what is your question here, cos you have me confused now, just take turns it mite work.
2007-02-01 00:34:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you physically incapable of getting on top or do you just not like it?
2007-02-01 00:01:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋